im having trouble with that. i dont know what my orientation is and i need some tips that might help me
2006-07-08 18:20:44 · 12 answers · asked by promiscuouspen 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You know you're bisexual when you reach down someone's pants and are happy with whatever you find.
2006-07-08 18:48:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your confusion about your sexual orientation most probably stems from internalising society's "either or" philosophy. Bisexuals unfortunately have to put up with a society which doesn't understand or appreciate them. You probably have had gay/straight people telling you to "stop sitting on the fence and make your mind up".
One popular myth is that in order to be bisexual, you have to like both sexes equally. Most bisexuals tend to prefer one sex over the other. What distinguishes bisexuals from homosexuals/heterosexuals is that irrespective of which gender they prefer, they cannot deny/suppress their feelings for the other gender.
There is no test/questionnaire you can take to determine your sexual orientation absolutely - only you can determine that. It may come to you quickly, or it could take a long journey of self-discovery to identify who you are. The main thing is to be open minded and to tackle any sources of anxiety (e.g. family, society, religion).
The links attached to this posting may be helpful to you in understanding the complex reality faced by bisexuals. The last one tries to map the variation of your sexual orientation.
2006-07-09 04:06:38 · answer #2 · answered by nemesis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you are bi you are attracted to both male and females. U look at females as sexy, or a more sexual way. You have an interest in pursuing a relationship with a female. However if you are not lesbain you still have a desire for a man in you life. If you are bisexual u just have a need for both.
2006-07-09 01:26:23 · answer #3 · answered by d_townsfinestmami429 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are sexually attracted to both males and females, you are bisexual. You do not need to be 50/50 or 60/40, it doesn't matter.
Read "Bi Any Other Name" - it's a wonderful book explaining bisexuality, common myths, and numerous stories by nearly every type of bi.
2006-07-09 11:17:21 · answer #4 · answered by michellesm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to find out is to be trysexual-- as in try being sexual.
2006-07-09 01:36:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are questing it that u are - if you think you like both than you must be attractive to both in different ways. don't worry it's ok - a lot more people are bi than u think - u are too
2006-07-09 02:03:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have any sort of preference then you are not bi. if you're up for anything then go for it and have fun
2006-07-09 01:55:57 · answer #7 · answered by theflamesrise 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start spending intmate time with men and women and see if you like both equally
2006-07-09 02:27:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You love both girls and guys. My friend is like that. She loves girls and guys. Like she kisses them on their mouth.
2006-07-09 02:00:52 · answer #9 · answered by Ay-mo[BAMF]™ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT SULLY THE GOOD "O" ANTI-GAY NAME
(GAYS) BY SPREADING YOUR SLANDEROUS FILTH
2006-07-09 04:30:05 · answer #10 · answered by RabbitHellFoxHeaven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋