How do you get over the fact that there are prettier girls than you/me?

Question

Insecurities, etc.

Answer 1

Uhh, there's really nothing to 'get over'. Attractiveness is subjective. What I find beautiful may not be what another person finds beautiful. I know there are prettier girls than me, but my husband thinks I'm the most beautiful woman he's ever known. So that's good enough for me.

Answer 2

insecurities are a hard thing to deal with. No one is perfect, even if they look great for that instant that you look at them. Most of these women realize that that is why men are with them. Unfortunately most of the men who only look at what they look at do not really find out who they are inside. This is really the thing that is will make a true love. Unfortunately these beautiful women suffer in the way that they know that men do not know their hearts, and only their bodies. Many times they want that. There is a balance in life to everything. I am greatful that I have a balance. I am not awsome looking, but everyone has faults in some way. Blessed Be.

Answer 3

I hate it. I am so insecure. You can ask anybody who knows me. They will say the same thing about me. It sucks and I wish I could just get over it. I have been told over and over again that I am beautiful and that I am sexy and for some reason, I feel good when a person says it, but right after it has been said, I am back to the way I thought before I even heard it. It is no way to live your life. If you find the cure for this feeling PLEASE tell me!!!

Answer 4

As a guy, believe me physical beauty is not everything. It may be more so for younger guys who have not matured yet. But in my present experience I can't stand to be around a girl who isn't either kind and or has something upstairs. And as far as dating there definitely has to be a connection. I don't care how pretty she is. Without a connection it is a no go. My suggestion is to work on yourself. Be confident in who you are. Men like women like confidence. Any guy who likes insecurity is probably a abuser and you want nothing to do with him. As for looks, as long as you have something don't worry about it. Your sincerity will naturally create situations in which you find someone you can truly connect. Respect and love yourself. You deserve it. Peace.

Answer 5

Trust me. Physical beauty only gets you so far. A real man wants a wife, mother, lover. Most those girls are stuck up. They want the guy whose gonna buy them things. When the money is gone so are they. Plus they don't like girls with low self-esteem. Be confident. There is a guy out there looking for a women that looks like u.

Answer 6

There are things to do to make you more attractive, and you should do some of that; it will help you feel better.

But you shouldn't be so concerned with that, people change, both you and them. The most beautiful thing you will ever learn is that you are beautiful. Everyone gets their share of love, hate, friendships, etc. You should know that you are. Then your problem will be solved.

Answer 7

I am fine with the fact that there are prettier girls out there than you! Just kidding!!!!!!!!!!!!! Really, though just don't worry about it!! You need to think more positively about yourself because people see you as you see yourself!! So if you think you are ugly and not worth it and so will everyone else!!! Love yourself and others will too!!

Answer 8

Don't let it bring you down. Use the pain that you feel to fuel your resolve to look much better. Start re-inventing yourself. At one point in the future, you will realize that because you used this situation to better yourself, you have not wasted moments feeling envious and remained the same in the end.

Show them what you got! Become the girl that you always wanted to be. Break free from the limitations of this world.

Answer 9

Each of us are different. The real beauty lies within. Get a hold of the reality that God created you and knew you before you were in your Mother's womb. There is no else exactly like you in this world. Even twins are different. God has a plan and a purpose for your life and it is awesome. Seek the Lord and ask Him to help you find the way and plan for your life. God loves you. You are awesome in His sight!

Answer 10

There is always someone better, so pick a personal characteristic that makes you better than most people and remember it every time your self esteem flags. I know that I am prettier than most, more intelligent than most, and more often right compared to others in my society, and that is enough for me. Most people aren't great at everything, or even good at most things, so learn to like who you are.