Best friend/Love what to do?
My best friend who i love very much(he knows it)keeps coming and going out of my life.Yet even though he loves me very much he wont commit/marry me.I love him i dont want to loose him as a best friend what do i do?
2006-07-08 18:14:39 · 10 answers · asked by libraslovebeautycare 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Always remember your best friend is your love so either best friends triumphs or love triumphs either way both triump one way or other
2006-07-08 18:35:20 · answer #1 · answered by docfreudianslip 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Loveing someone and being in love with someone are very diffrent things. I'm sure that they care about you very much, but it would seem that if they were really in love with you that they wouldn't just float in and out of your life. If you value your friendshp with them, then leave it at that, love them as a friend, even if you want more. Don't leave your self just hanging arround hopeing that they might change their mind. Be the kind of friend that you want them to be, and if they truely love you they will come arround, and if they don't, well then you've got one hell of a friendship. Also don't think being friends is settling for something less. To many of us do that. Friendship is beautiful, and it can be every bit as much rewarding as being with someone. I think being their friend is the best thing for now. Hope this helps.
Lynda
2006-07-08 18:34:40 · answer #2 · answered by lynda_Luv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am on the flip side of this question. My girlfriend of almost 4 years is still in the learning to be independent stage and has told me repetitively that she is anti-marriage. We are in an inclusive, long distance relationship that is going well. The best advice that I can give is to keep walking beside him and allow him to be ready for the next step.
2006-07-08 18:21:41 · answer #3 · answered by andy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a complicated mess! My best advice, after many years on earth, and my percentage of damaged hearts, is to bypass on. If the guy is too shy or scared to communicate mutually with her, inspite of understanding how she feels, and inspite of admitting he returns her emotions, then there's a situation, and that is not mutually with her. moves communicate louder than words, and his moves (or lack of them) say he's not fascinated. My question is why this pal of yours hangs on to any desire of a courting with someone obviously so reticent? i'm positive she's an concepts-blowing female. She might want to relish existence and finally she will have the ability to satisfy someone who merits her.
2016-10-14 06:38:28 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he not ready to marry yet but being best friends is not a bad thing either. Just love your best friend for now.
you will not lose him friends will always be around more too.Just let him as you when he is ready to marry.
I have a best friend too and believe me this is very cool.
2006-07-08 18:29:47 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you don't want to loose him that care very much for him, but you can't just sit back and let life pass you by, if he will not commit to you that you must find someone that you don't feel you are waisting you time with, he will come around, if he does not then you made the right choose to move on.
2006-07-08 18:20:37 · answer #6 · answered by citisat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear, if you really love him and he loves you. And you two want to marry, Being best friends and then dating etc etc is the best kind of love i know, It's true it's fun and you are already best friends. If you truly love him as much as he loves you
GO FOR IT!!!!
2006-07-09 15:35:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him you need to tell him and i know its hard but thats the way you feel you need to ask him for advice and if not its just gonna keep hurting you and by the way he probably wants to but gets to nervous but dont worry hang in there
2006-07-08 18:19:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's scared to commit. or maybe he doesn't feel the same way as you do. if he was a friend, he wouldn't be in/ out of your life like that. Talk to him and see what's up
2006-07-08 18:19:09 · answer #9 · answered by Giggles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in the same deal just trust your heart!
2006-07-08 18:17:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋