what should i do , i saw them secretely going at it and it got me hangry but at the same time it got me exceded at a point that i ....
in the bathroom the next day , should i leave her , or ask her to do it 3 somes it would be the first time?
2006-07-08 17:56:52 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
XXXXXXXXXXXX you sound like a very confused man, the two of you are meant for eachother. XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
2006-07-08 18:01:42 · answer #1 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's with a young guy because you haven't been showing her enough attention. Maybe she feels ignored and not able to discuss with you what her needs are and this young guy makes her feel desirable. Maybe she was hoping to get caught so that you'd realize your relationship is in trouble and you could work it out. In any event, I would guess that a threesome would be the last thing on her mind!!! Are you gay? I know that many guys fantasize about having two or more women at the same time. And most women fantasize about having two or more men at the same time, BUT I've never heard of a straight guy wanting to share his woman with another guy. Maybe I'm naive. I would say this is a wake-up call. You can either stick around and try to fix it or tell her you're leaving her. Under no circumstances should you accept things as they are. It's sick!
2006-07-08 18:14:53 · answer #2 · answered by cindymonjeau 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm Sorry I Meant To Leave Before You Got Home That Day
2006-07-08 18:07:40 · answer #3 · answered by Grateful2NA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a choice that only you can answer to insure your marriage won't suffer for it. Talk to your wife and find out what her thoughts are on the matter (3 some) before you decide that it's what will keep you from divorce. Get an understanding on if you are OK with her affair if it benefits the two of you, or you need to get out of it for your state of mind and your happiness.
2006-07-08 18:05:31 · answer #4 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I am so sorry for you.Did she ask you before she was doing the young ****? I guess not. Do what you want, I would have got myself the best lawyer money could buy you and take every penny the h,,, have, but then again I don`t tolerate being scr..d in the a.. by my wife or any other for that sake
peace and love from Norway
2006-07-08 18:06:16 · answer #5 · answered by thefallen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's wrong that your wife was with a 16 year old guy . She really should go after more experianced dudes and leave you in the shower to play with yourself since you are so pathetic.
You should invite old men over and charge them to be with the slutt so you can pocket the money in a special account that she won't be able to get in divorce court.
BOSCO
2006-07-08 18:04:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Well, everyone has their own likes and dislikes, however your wife shouldn't have been cheating on you. Regardless of whether you liked it or not. She had no intention on telling you about it, and that is dishonest, and not something a wife should do. Maybe you should discuss this with your wife, but stand your ground and explain to her that she needs to be honest with you, and that wasn't the way of going about it. If she went somewhere else to find something she was missing with you, do you really want to be involved with her? The choice is yours, but I would advise thinking about things a lot longer, and following your own heart. Not what everyone else rights on here!
Best of luck to you
2006-07-08 18:02:21 · answer #7 · answered by ynitseDestiny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sicko
You know what you want to do.
You are getting off on haveing people read this than answer it.
The sad part is that you even like reading what I write. Gives you a rush to upset people.
If your wife is cheating on you and you want to ask Yahoo people what to do........you definatly need to make an appointment with a psychologist. Or grow up.
2006-07-08 18:45:35 · answer #8 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this is serious. She is cheating on you and I expect you have a lot of mixed feelings. I don't think the 3-way is a good idea. Talk to her about this and get counseling. Your marriage is headed for disaster and maybe divorce. Get help now. Seeing other people have sex is exciting, but this is your wife, man. Get a grip.
2006-07-08 18:01:12 · answer #9 · answered by doryanne949 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well talk to her about it, tell her your feelings and ask her if you can join in or watch from a close distance, if it is worth it to divorce her after so many years then divorce her, if you feel like it is a lot of trouble to go through a divorce then simply tell her you don't mind her screwing someone else but you would like a share and a threesome if they wouldn't mind, or simply try and get a deal to watch her getting hammered while you masturbate. It is your life and your choice.
2006-07-10 03:26:30 · answer #10 · answered by rabb b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on what your expectations are from your wife. most people would be horrified at what you witnessed and get angry and want to leave her.
do you feel hurt at all by what she has done or does it just turn you on? if you don't feel that hurt then it doesn't look like you love her and probably shouldn't be with her anyway.
you think because you ask her for a threesome that is in someway going to make it okay? it is likely that she wouldn't want a threesome anyway, she probably slept with the guy because you weren't doing it for her anymore.
whatever happens i think you should leave her and find someone who wants you because it sure don't sound like she does.
2006-07-08 18:01:52 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋