Why does his mom hate me?Does she hate me?

Question

ok,i have this boy friend who i love with all my heart and we have been tiring to spend time with each other during the summer..

i had gone on a trip and i had my cell with me so we decied to text each other and what he sent was "i want you bad if you know what i mean"

i get get back from the trip finding that his mom had grounded him for that and she questioned us being together and she was telling him about how he could get AIDs and all this..(not like we've had sex yet..plus im a virgin..he is not..)

and now when ever he and i are on the phone she tells him to get off right when we start talking

my mom thinks that she's acting this way because maybe it has to do with that her son (my boyfriend) is white and im black..but if that was the case then she would have been actin that way in the beggining

or maybe she's afraid of the fact that he might be sexually active?

and its making me really unhappy that i cant speak to or see him..what do u think?

i know this isnt a question but i would just like to hear what some one thinks cuz i have no one to talk to about it

he's 13 and im 13...his birthday is 7 days before mine

Answer 1

it might be a black thing but not beecause your black but the fact that he wants to have sex with a black girl. she might be thinking of the fact that the community wiith AIDS the most is the black community (besides the gay) or she might just be a b*tch and hate you because your black. you need to let her know that you have never had sex and especially with him. he is the horn dog and your not and she needs to know that. if you don't watch out he might start cheating on you or this might cause the two of you to break up.

Answer 2

Yeah it probably is because you're black. I don't know here you're from but I know 'this' city is pretty divided and any interracial relationships are frowned upon. Especially because many of colored people are involved in various crimes (drugs, shootins, AT LEAST one a night) being notorious for violence.
See you have the luxury of being young an inexperienced. His mother cannot afford such indulgence because she can already see the NUMEROUS hurdles an interracial relationship will undoubtedly endure, and she does not wish this hardship for her son. In example, most peoples wouldn't wish their children to be himosexual because it is no openly accepted by society and will cause monumental hurdles for their child. That being said. Shes not necessarily correct in her actions. But you ARE young, why stress over things that will not matter in 2 years, let alone 10.

Answer 3

sweetie your too young to know about loving somebody with all your heart. if you were my daughter it would be me not letting you talk to him just because of what he texted you. he had no business writing that to you. how old is he? stay a virgin till you get a little older. what is the rush? you should be playing not falling in love. his mom is afraid of becoming a young grandmother. give yourself respect don't let anybody write or treat you like a sex object. i have a 13 year old daughter and if some body text my daughter like that she loses her phone and i text back that i would like to kick your *** real bad know what i mean.

Answer 4

well child i can relate to . my son is 25 and she is20 they now have 3 beautiful girls but she is running wild you and the mother. because i am one and my daughter in law of six years ended up pregnant at 14 years of age. so may that is this mothers concern they now have 3 girls she is barely 20 years old . and now is running around on him and my granddaughters are just throw-ed any where. so may be it is not just you maybe she knows her son pretty well and just does not want you all to make bad mistakes that latter could really affect your life

Answer 5

well look i dnt think it's u i think ya boyfriend moms she need 2 sit down an talk 2 him b/c she messin up his life an if she wonted 2 know sumthing den she should of ask him instead of doin all dat an i think u should jus tell dis lady look i luv ya son very much y r u doin dis 2 us an jus talk 2 her c where she cummin from

Answer 6

How old are you? If I found my son talking to a girl like that and he was under 18, I would be angry, too, and I would ground him. It is more his fault than yours, but he is too young to be having a conversation like that if he is still living at home. My home,my rules.

Answer 7

Have you tried telling her how you feel? tell her you love her son and he means a lot to you and she should understand.

Answer 8

i think she just dont want a mixed grand baby
she prolly thought you were just another girlfriend but now she prolly thinks your getting too serious with him so she has to break it off before it goes to far.
i bet thats what it is!