2006-07-08 17:47:53 · 12 answers · asked by Nicki 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well, it could just be that you aren't crazy in love with the person you're having sex with. That matters to alot of people . ... or...I have spoken to some who have had so much sex that it's just not that exciting anymore (sort of like eating chocolate cake for breakfast, lunch and dinner) in that case, abstinance and commitment can help ....or... well, you don't say if you're male or female, but I know that women peak sexually MUCH later than males--sometimes in the thirties--- It also could be that this is just your normal hormonal level, which may or may not change, but you're pretty young, so many hormones which affect the sex drive are still fluctuating. Also, I did read something about some people who never do have a real high sexual drive---or none at all. This is probably not that common, but for them it is perfectly normal...in fact, some would consider it a gift that frees them up to concentrate on other things.
I wouldn't worry too much about it, but you could always see your OBGYN (if female) or urologist (if male) if you are worried.
Hoping the best for you....
2006-07-08 18:17:44 · answer #1 · answered by Debra N 3 · 9⤊ 7⤋
Strange. You are immune to the media? Supposedly in terms of psychology, you are supposed to think about sex every 8 seconds. But I think that is complete bs myself.
Women sometimes need a strong psychological attachment to enjoy sex. Perhaps that is why you never feel the desire?
Also everyone is different. Some women want sex every day, other don't want it at all.
2006-07-09 00:50:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your a girl wait till your wait 10 years then youll see it. mind STDs take away drive and can leave you infurtile, and there fast effecting in girls . if your a boy and your 21 and have no sex drive then yes theres probebly something wrong with that see a doctor . however having the desire to want to, but the knowledge not too is deffinatly an okay thing
2006-07-09 00:54:10 · answer #3 · answered by Dredinar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women are completely reactive in their sexuality; they enjoy sex once someone begins with them, but they never think about it or want it otherwise. I think it has something to do with hormone levels.
Have a check up at the doctor, but you're probably completely normal. Just let your partner/s know that you are never going to initiate sex with them.
2006-07-09 00:52:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't just you. People get into slumps where they just don't feel like it. If it continues however a doctor can perscribe something now wich is the female equivalent to viagra, don't know what it's called. but it does exist.
2006-07-09 00:52:02 · answer #5 · answered by lovpayne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you have a hormone problem, you should have this checked out by a doctor. If not and you marry, be sure you marry someone that will be happy the way you are sexually.
2006-07-09 01:19:31 · answer #6 · answered by mklwis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do as you please...don't force on yourself though...however if you want to be in the mood there are stimulants for both men and women...
2006-07-09 00:51:39 · answer #7 · answered by Jessica P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it certainly isn't me because i love sex. maybe your experiences havn't been that great and you need it to be a whole lot better.
2006-07-09 00:50:32 · answer #8 · answered by A-Town Soulja 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its OK no one has died from not having sex but people die every day by engaging in it
2006-07-09 00:50:11 · answer #9 · answered by prodigy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you haven't found the right partner?
2006-07-09 00:50:41 · answer #10 · answered by nice_dog 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋