Have you ever cheated on your spouse?

Question

If so, why did you do it? Do you regret it?

Answer 1

Enjoy yourself life is too short, but don't let anyone know - remember ignorance is bliss.

Answer 2

Hi Carmel -
I cheated on my wife so many times and caught so many diseases from these nasty women. I am done with that , from now on I am only going to cheat with woman who have been faithful to thier husbands.
So far it looks like you have been a faithful woman . My wife is taking the kids on a trip in a few weeks . I think you and I could meet if you are not too far. Rest assured , I had all those diseases taken care of last winter.
The only real regret I had was when I had to lie to the kids when they caught me one time . Fortunately they were young enough to believe that Daddy was giving this lady a doctor type exam. I gave them a few bucks to go over to the ice cream store while I finished the exam.
Of course the wart covered DINK two years ago got me a bit nerveous but the wife seemed to like the added ribs and I never said a word.
So Carmel - you and I alone , during the 1st week of August. I am a 350lbs pure man - disease free, and will treat you right. I usually charge for my services but I will give you the 1st evening FREE. I have never had a woman turn me down the 2nd night , even at the full service price. I am that good !

BOSCO

Answer 3

I've never cheated but thought about it. Only because I haven't been with a lot of guys and I get curious. I wonder what if.... I realized lately how much I flirt with other men, but I doubt anything would happen. I love my guy to much and know I would be cheating myself also. I would definitely regret it.

Answer 4

No...but almost.
My ex cheated on me throughout our 15yr marriage. He was also verbally abusive. One time, about 7yrs into the marriage, my ex-boyfriend looked me up while my then husband was at work. We spent the day together and I fantasized about being with him again. Then as we were about to get close to kissing, I thought about my then husband,and stopped. I knew at that moment I would loose him if I continued. So I ended it right there. Years later as my ex asked for the divorce and told me he had been seeing someone else,I told him a story. I said"Well, that's the difference between you and me. I too had the choice/chance to have an affair, but turned away because I knew it would mean loosing you" My ex stood there open mouthed shocked. Then demanded to know who, when and where... I just smiled and left.

Answer 5

No and never will , my first husband cheated on me, and it not only destroyed me, but our kids.. and id never want to put anyone through the pain that i went through.. Word cant even describe how completely crushing it is to know the person u love has cheated on you, it not only breaks your heart, it kills a part of your soul, and it never fully heals no matter how hard you try..

Answer 6

No I have, not neither has he.. I mean why get married if you are going to cheat?

Just stay single and sleep around then.
We have an honest commited and passionate relationship, going on 14 years strong and no other man nor woman will ever ruin what we have. We our eachother's soul mate.

Answer 7

if kissing is cheating and I think it is then yes. I was in an emotionally empty marriage and was lonely but I felt really guilty about it and knew it meant my heart was no longer with my husband. Don't regret it because it helped me to wake up and see what his emotional abuse was doing to me.

Answer 8

yes , cause i was young and stupid and thought i was doing the only thing i could to feel better . yes i regret it , its caused alot of pain for my husband and has made life hard on us at times , but I'm lucky he didn't leave me and we've been married 21 yrs

Answer 9

Absolultly not!!! The closest I ever came was a make-out session with my ex before my husband and I were officially dating. (we had met and he was on a fishing trip with his brother) but there was no sex involved.

Answer 10

Never cheated on my wife.