Do you believe in premarital sex?

Question

I don't

Answer 1

Believe in it? What like Santa Claus...I more than believe it, I love it!!!!!!!!!

Answer 2

I absolutely DO NOT believe in premarital sex! My life has been practically ruined because of it. I had it going on, in college, great life...then it happened, I got pregnant. Boy did that put a kink in my plans! Not to mention all the STD's out there. EVERYBODY is doing EVERYBODY! That is NASTY & SCARY!! Just imaging how wonderful it would be to give your husband/wife your virginity. There would be no trust issues, no past boy/girlfriend issues, a lot less stress on a relationship! And if the person you marry is terrible in bed, you can ALWAYS train them to do what you like or experiment & make it the best sex ever!! Being bad in bed is nothing to fear, it can very easily be fixed!! I think it is very respectful to wait until marriage, very hard, but the right thing to do. Premarital sex causes to many problems...trust issues, lack of respect, unwanted pregnancy, bad reputations, & a chance at death by STD!! SEX IS NOT WORTH IT NO MATTER HOW GOOD IT IS!!

Answer 3

No, It is just best to wait. If you havepremarital sex, it sometimes leads into a wedding that never occurs. Guys know that sex is really a special thing for a lady, and that it is a form of comitment in her eyes. but if they can get her to "pu out" without a wedding, they usually will not marry the girl. Why buy the cow if you can get the milk for free is an old addage that sums it up. If a man is serious and respects his lady he will be willing to wait and sex becomes more special and important to both partners in the marriage. If given up easily, respect is lowered and self esteem is lost for both people.

Answer 4

Always test drive the car before you buy it. What if you find out that you waited and your man has a small penis and your stuck with it! Or if he is a boring a** lay? That's a divorce waiting to happen. The only thing that holds a lot of couples together during the bad times is sex. You need to make sure you are compatible before you get married.

Answer 5

I was a 24-year-old virgin bride and proud of it. My husband was a 22-year-old virgin, as well, both of us by personal choice. On our wedding night, we had the best sex ever because it was the only sex we'd ever had. We are both very glad we waited! This way, we didn't have to worry about it was better with so-and-so, or if we have any STDs. We have plenty of good reasons for waiting, and believe me, it was WELL worth it.

Don't get me wrong, both of us had lots of temptations. I dumped this one guy that I had been dating because I found out he only wanted me for my body. There's also this little thing that most people choose to ignore called "self-control." Whatever happened to it? It's not always a bad thing.

Answer 6

I wanted to wait till marriage, but the temptation of being in a relationship for 2 and a half yrs it got a little too much. We werent ready for marriage and still aren't but I wish I could have waited. Im 24 and have only been with 1 person and im still with em and plan to marry them one day.

Answer 7

I don't! I don't think it is necessary to have sex before you are married. I was a virgin bride when I got married at the age of 28. And I never regretted it.

The best things come to thoughs who wait!

Answer 8

I think you should wait. I "test drove" plenty of men, but when I met my husband, he wanted to wait for the wedding night and I have the utmost respect for that. Sex is a teachable skill. It has nothing to do with "previous experience" and I think it was fun to "train my soul mate in." I'm also honored that he waited over 30 years for me.

Answer 9

Then you are in the very small minority. Why would you buy the Cow if you haven't tasted the milk? Good luck to ya!

Answer 10

What we believe won't have a baring on your belief. It sure won't stop you from doing what you want to do.