my husband works around very beutiful women every day, how can I make myself look my best to compete with them

Question

I am a stay at home, breatfeeding mother with three young children. I have no energy or time to spend on myself. I cannot even use the bathroom with the door closed! I know that this is not his problem and do not want him to suffer from the way I look.

Do you have any ideas on how to take the time to look good? Are there any short cuts to looking good, or any specific things that make a woman look her best?

Answer 1

I am with you girl, I know it is so hard to look your best when you have been through the whole 9 yards all day.. I have 5, oldest is 9 and youngest is 2 months. from kids, to cleaning house to cooking dinner, where do you have time. I would just say change the shirt you have been wearing all day that has no telling what on!! find something that is sexy but on the same line with comfort and okay for your kids to see.. also mascara and lip gloss goes a long way and it takes just a min. take you hair down as soon as he walks in. put some sweet perfume on that he loves. this would only take a min of your time. and you can still do all of these things while your kids are in the bathroom with ya!! Good Luck!! have Fun!!

Answer 2

If you have a good man....He only has only eyes for you.

I know you are a good woman because you are concerned that
he has an attractive woman at home and is happy.

1) you have three kids,how many times have you been intimate?
May 700 or more times? ( I think he loves you!)
2)Fix your hair a little,put on some colone and kiss him and watch
what happends!
3)Home is where the heart is (and comfort and love and a wonderful wife & family)

Answer 3

As a fellow SAHM, I feel your pain! I so miss privacy...

Invest in 2 things: a great skincare routine (no more than 3 steps, including sun protection) and a fabulous, low maintanence haircut. As for makeup, even out your skin tone, curl your lashes, groom your brows, and try NARS Orgasm blush and lip gloss (it works for most women). Keep yourself groomed. Wear sexy underwear, and pack away your maternity clothes and sweats! Put those nursing boobs to work and don't be afraid to show them off a little (sorry if you're leaking, though).

I know it's hard, but try to do all of this for yourself, and not to compete with anyone else. If you're trying to keep up with other women, you'll never feel like you measure up and you'll waste precious time picking yourself apart. Good luck.

Answer 4

He married you , didn't he????? Get some confidence from the fact that he thought you were beautiful (inside and out) enough to marry, and will continue to think this is so.....Why are you so worried about him "suffering for the way you look?" He obviously knows what you go through daily, and if he doesn't then he wasn't worth marrying in the first place......Take some YOU time.....Leave the baby with mom or grandma and go for a day at the spa.....You'll feel rejuvinated and beautiful again....Take care

Answer 5

First clue, your his wife. All you need to do is be yourself and the rest will follow. Don't work yourself up about who your husband works with, he married you didn't he, he obviously Love's only you then. If you suspect he's sleeping with one of the hose bags, try a little hint like, honey, how was your day at the office? Did you talk to so and so (one of those hot women he may be talking to) today? If the answer is yes, talk about the gun show you went to while he was at work. This will scare the bejesus out of him and he'll never talk to that camel toed hussy again! Good luck to ya!

Answer 6

Mark yourself as his girlfriend or companion. Since the women at work can not do this and you can, this is what you take advantage of and make sre he does not forget. You attempt to fulfil his fantasies at night. Wear uniform at night (for seduction), every night try to give him what he wants... or at least 3 times a week. In public places try to kiss him as often as possible an make him feel special, this will imprint you into his mind.

Answer 7

It's really about trust, and about his moral character. Trust is vital for the survival of any relationship. It's also about the kind of man that he is. If he's the type that would cheat, then the presence of these attractive women isn't the issue, because he'd cheat anyway. If he is honest and faithful, then he would never cheat on you, regardless of the situation.

As for trying to look good, I'd recommend watching your diet and getting plenty of rest (whenever possible). You're already getting plenty of exercize, so I wouldn't even worry about that one. ;)

Good luck.

Answer 8

Just be yourself and because you dont bring any money in then just be there to support him emotionaly and do things that make him rely on you a little.. it is normal for a few to catch his eye because of their looks but dont feel bad because you are the one he loves and comes home to eery nght
dont worry just stay clean and make time for him and everything will be okay.

Answer 9

ok that forth comment wasn't necessary, i know what you mean i go through the same thing. I usually try to take care of myself better when they are napping. Or even see if you can have someone who can keep an eye on the kids for a bit while you pamper yourself.

Answer 10

just remember that he loves you...so you don't need to compete with them...just before he comes home for dinner...take 5 mins for yourself... brush your hair...(easy if you keep it short as you are so busy with the children), wash your face, brush your teeth, and put a little lip gloss on or light shade of lipstick,,, just to perk yourself up, even though you have had a hectic day... and put a smile on your face and meet him at the doorway when he comes home and greet him with a kiss.... husbands like this... and ask him how is day is.....good luck to you..