2006-07-08 17:11:11 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
If its not with the right person..then its not all that good...if its with someone u love then its all that and more..then again it all depends on how he can work it..are if she likes do more then one thing...u feel me..dont like sex be boring if its with someone u love
2006-07-08 17:17:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is only fun when you and your partner are relaxed and trying to please each other. i know that no one would admit it, but sex the first few (or many) times can be uncomfortable and not enjoyable at all. It is very common that the female cannot orgasm in the beginning - it takes alot more for the woman than the man.
Unfortunately, because no one will admit to this, it has made society an unforgiving place, and somehow, you are supposed to always enjoy sex and always orgasm. I have been working on my sexual relationship with the same man for 6 years, and while we had a good time in the beginning, we have a *great* time now. It's all about being comfortable in what you are doing, knowing what you and yoru partnet likes, and not being afraid to say that you dont like what he or she is doing. i know that if we went along with what the world wants you to think, we would not have such a good, close relationship with each other, both in bed and out.
Once you get past that, yes, sex is all its cracked up to be and more!
2006-07-09 03:05:30 · answer #2 · answered by Leah S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is sex everything it's cracked up to be? If you go by the amount of time people spend talking about it, obsessing over it, etc., probably not. That doesn't mean it can't be a wonderful part of a person's life. Remember that there is only one good reason for having sex with anyone, and that is that you want to. Sex out of peer pressure, or boredom, or a fear of being alone is a bad motive. If you follow this rule consistently, you will one day be able to look at all your sexual experiences with great pride.
2006-07-09 01:26:34 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. Denny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well depends on the person you are having it with. it can be amazing and then it can be a dissapointment. Yes it feels good and sometimes like the best feeling in the world (physically) anyway. but sex is better when youare so in love with the other person because emotions are there and it intensifies the feeling in all ways. If you have sex just to have sex, or to feed your urge for satisfaction, than it can be ok, I guess, maybe physically but no way near as fufilling as a mutual partnership. Good Luck hunny, try and wait, you will be glad you did.
2006-07-09 00:20:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Serously, I'll tell ya what I told my little sister. The first time, unless you've waited for marriage & it's your honeymoon, (but it could also be the same) just totally sucks. It's over in a flash. You are completly uncomfortable with your body, you have no idea what the hell your doing, so you end up being really stiff & rigid, unless of course, your drunk. My husband & I were each other's firsts & I'll tell ya what- it was great for him, but for me, I was wondering, what's the hype? Needless to say, a few months down the road & getting our groove, things were great. Now 11yrs later, I can't even imagine being with anyone else & the connection we have is amazing.
What I see is, if your just casually doing it with people, your not going to get out of it the true love mentally that you want. That takes time & a connection with someone who cares about you.
2006-07-09 00:20:47 · answer #5 · answered by pritigrl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your in love with the person it is special. Don't do it just to do. If this is someone you could spend the rest of your life with and raise a child with then maybe. Remember it can only take one time to get pregnant and/or STDS. make sure you know what your geting into.
2006-07-09 00:17:34 · answer #6 · answered by KAT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really. Too many girls start having sex too young and when they finally find someone that they want to spend their life with sex is not a big deal anymore. It is important to only make love with someone that you really have deep feelings for.
2006-07-09 00:18:02 · answer #7 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait,don't give into your urges.I wish I waited untill I was ready can't turn back time. So go and enjoy life and you have forever to have sex,later on in life.It's gonna be tough waiting,but if your strong,I believe you can do it. Best of luck to you and hopefully my opinion helped you out a lil bit? Take Care:)
2006-07-09 00:24:24 · answer #8 · answered by brian g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not even worth it. yea it feels good depending on the person but its not all its cracked up to be. its the same thing over and over again. its not worth getting a name for or disgrading your self. its best to just wait. 90% of boys want to just get into your pants and 100% of them will blab their mouths even if they say they wont they will. its not worth it for something that will happen for only 10 minutes. and its to dangerous you can get pregnant and worse catch a disease.
2006-07-09 00:21:42 · answer #9 · answered by Mariah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its up to you...if your hott and wild go for it...remember the thing has to be around 6 inches for you to feel something...no just kidding...if i were you i would wait...i am 16 and i lost my virginty to a 15 year old and now i am a father...parenting is not easy and once you know you are so caught up in having sex that you feel that one time will not hurt you...that is what i though... and now my parents are paying child support
2006-07-09 00:37:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋