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2006-07-08 17:08:14 · 16 answers · asked by john s 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Trust me, you'll never even remember that you asked yourself this question in a couple of months. Don't give it another thought, you must know by now that everything truly works out in the end. Many blessing to you and your wife and your new baby boy!
2006-07-08 17:18:17 · answer #1 · answered by wizibuff 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just know that every baby is wonderful. You could have a boy now and have a girl next and end up having a better relationship with your boy than with your girl. Or it could be vice versa. Every child has a different personality. And you should appreciate each one.
You need to have a long thought about why you are wanting a girl and why your dissapointed about a boy. And what reasons have caused those reasons. Get to the bottom of it. Then say those reasons out loud. And tell your wife those reasons. Or atleast someone who can talk to you honestly.
All children are wonderful. And imagine how it would feel for your son, if you allowed your feelings of disappointment to show over to him. How it would affect him the rest of his life. And it could even effect your relationship with him if you let it. Your son has no choice in being born a boy and should not be looked at wrong for it.
2006-07-09 00:16:27 · answer #2 · answered by J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was pregnant with my first child, I was convinced I was having a girl, even when the sonogram said a boy. I was disappointed since there aren't many girls in this family's generation-I have 6 nephews and 2 neices. Even right up to the delivery I thought I was having a girl. However when I saw my son for the first time, it really didn't matter whether I had a boy or a girl. Besides, there's always next time and the fun you have trying for another baby.
2006-07-09 00:22:26 · answer #3 · answered by shygirl_jill 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't look at it as a mistake first of all. There's nothing wrong with having a boy. You being a man yourself should be glad because you'll be able to teach him all about sports and other things that men do. And just because you didn't get what you wanted the first time around, talk to your wife about having more children. If the two of you decide to, and still no girl, maybe it wasn't meant to be. Don't let that get in the way of your marriage, or the love you give to your new son. Family is a beautiful thing and when he arrives, I'm sure you'll realize a boy is just as great! =)
Congratulations!
2006-07-09 00:13:11 · answer #4 · answered by youdontknowme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be grateful that there isn't something wrong with that baby. So you didn't get a girl...try again after this baby is born. Once that baby comes it won't matter the sex. A baby is a wonderful gift...boy or girl. Start thinking of everything you can do with your little boy as he grows. there is nothing you can do about it and like I said just be glad you didn't find out that your child has a deformity or illness
2006-07-09 09:32:09 · answer #5 · answered by ktpb 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just remember that it is a baby and no matter what you will love him. I was totally convinced when I was pregnant that I was having a girl until I had my ultra sound and found out I was having a boy. I was disapointed for about a 1/2 second, and realized that as long as my baby was healthy it did not matter what the sex was.
2006-07-09 00:13:05 · answer #6 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to the sporting goods store and start dreaming about all the sports you can teach your son. The more excited you are about the boy who's on the way the disappointment of the girl will fade away.
2006-07-09 00:11:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I went through the same thing with my youngest son I mean I have 3 boys and it was time for a girl..... had a name and everything decided upon.. and when I found out that I was having another boy I broke down my hsband took me aside and told me just to be thankful that we were being given this gift of having another child, and that he was healthy and strong.... hope it helps
2006-07-09 00:12:51 · answer #8 · answered by sparrowmoon1978 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are right to be dissappointed. Your wife let you down and you really don't want this child. I suggest that you have sex with as many women as possible, eventually you will have a beautiful daughter. Then, when your wife is not around switch the babies, she'll never notice because mothers are dumb.
2006-07-09 00:16:57 · answer #9 · answered by mary_mulligan99 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be thankful for what you get cause some people can't even have kids. As long as it's healthy then be happy cause once it's born you want even think about that i promise. You'll be to worried about meeting your new little boy.
2006-07-15 15:39:38 · answer #10 · answered by Fun girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋