2006-07-08 16:26:31 · 14 answers · asked by mary 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
so what
2006-07-08 16:28:39 · answer #1 · answered by mixedbreed76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I go through this every now and then. He shows no interest for a while and when I can't take it anymore, I ask him what's going on. A lot of the time it's stress and he just wants some alone time. We talk about it, discuss what we can do for each other and that's usually it. I suggest that you just talk to him, see if there's something wrong. He may be tired, stressed or even have something medically wrong that he hasn't shared with you.
Good Luck!
2006-07-08 23:41:09 · answer #2 · answered by casey's girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah a little more info would make it easier to answer your question hon. About what some of the other folks say on here, NO, it has nothing to do about if you've "let" yourself go either, that has nothing to do with it at all in my book. One day when all your looks and body image start to slide (like it always does), like all these 20 yr olds will find out when its their turn up at bat, only then, will they find out what it is like to race to beat the clock.......its not fun, and its a constant battle. Again......shallow guys that cannot see past whats on the outside. Geez.
2006-07-08 23:37:29 · answer #3 · answered by msjinx39 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont feel alone....if I was a video game Id get all the attention I need or want. Ya know maybe he has some problems and dosent know how to begin talking to you about them and may be embarrased, or maybe something deeper is going on. I know it is hard to get men to open up, but if you Love him its worth a try, if not dont try at all. Men do have problems with their sexuality just like some women, and they have a tendency to ignore you because they dont know what else to do and it is more embarrasing for men to see a doctor about it because it is about their ego big time.
2006-07-08 23:33:04 · answer #4 · answered by c g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make him! Give him a strip tease.... Cook in the nude! Clean in a nighty. My husband does all my chores because when I start to clean like that I tell him I can't stop in the middle I have to finish so he volunteers to finish so we can have time together.. Hint....1. I have his attention, 2. He is helping me with the house.
2006-07-08 23:34:09 · answer #5 · answered by Candie2398 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why haven't you asked him what's wrong? Communications in a relationship is extremely important to keep things from getting out of control. Find out and try to work on it if possible, and if he's not going to make an effort, then you do what you have to for your happiness.
2006-07-08 23:31:51 · answer #6 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're looking for advice, I'd suggest you spice things up a bit. Most guys like excitement. Suprise him in unexpected ways.
2006-07-08 23:32:01 · answer #7 · answered by Tracy L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, and you're going to expound on that I hope and create a question rather than just making the statement.
2006-07-08 23:29:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be many things; you've grown apart, he's having an affair, he suffers from mental illness, he going through some sort of life crisis, he's suffering from some type of sexual dysfunction, you've somehow lost your appeal...
2006-07-08 23:34:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why, have you let yourself go, how long have you been married. What have you tried to get him to notice you? We need more information in order to give a good answer for you.
2006-07-08 23:30:17 · answer #10 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why and in what way you have to be more specific
2006-07-08 23:34:48 · answer #11 · answered by kathy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋