sometime i pretend like im gonna answer my husband's phone and he ask why it's not like i really want to answer it i just want to see what his reactions would be.
2006-07-08 16:18:30 · 18 answers · asked by keedie b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes there are trust issue
2006-07-08 16:47:30 · update #1
he cheated on me before and now he hides his cell phone under the bed
2006-07-08 16:52:23 · update #2
As long as you trust one another, then there should not be a problem.
My wife answers my phone from time to time if I leave it home.
I have answered her phone when she is in the shower, etc...
Communication works both ways. You have to express your concerns to your husband, and allow him to address them in a way that resolves them once and for all. Otherwise you will allow this to eat away at you.
I pray you and your husband have the type of relationship where you can talk about anything, no matter how sensitive the subject may be. When you got married, the two fleshs became one. In order for you two to live in harmony together, then you have to establish an agreement in everything you decide to do or don't do.
Amos 3:3 says "Can two walk together, except they be agreed?"
Since he cheated on you before, then I would recommend you tell him the reason why you would like to answer his phone! If you find any strange numbers stored in his phone or on the cell phone bill, I would call them. Although he has cheated on the your relationship before did you ever get marriage counseling or attend a marriage relationship building course? Check out the link below for more information.
2006-07-08 21:59:51 · answer #1 · answered by Questions/Answers Critic (QAC)! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It shouldn't be a problem, but you seem to have some kind of doubt in him already. He should have nothing to fear nor hide from you, and he shouldn't mind if you answer the cell phone. If you want to see his reaction, you are starting to doubt him in his faithfulness for some reason, or you are playing a game of some type. You are a married couple and should have no secrets from one another. Your actions tell me that you don't trust him though.
2006-07-08 23:35:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
does he use the phone for business or is it just his personal phone? is it that he doesn't want you see who is calling or does he just want to know why you want to answer HIS phone. is there more to this story and why you are trying to see if he reacts to you answering his phone? If you see no reaction either way , it time to move on to other things. why do you continue to silently accuse him? look if there are trust issues you need to be honest with him and talk them over. if not.. stop playing childish games.
2006-07-08 23:42:10 · answer #3 · answered by Storm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've got nothing to hide, then I see nothing wrong with answering my partner's phone or him answering mine. If your husband has an issue with you answering his phone then I would probably assume that he is hiding something. What's the big deal?
2006-07-08 23:25:49 · answer #4 · answered by spoiltrini 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should be able to trust you enough to answer his phone - though most of the time you'd just have to hand it to him anyway. OTOH you should be able to trust him enough to feel like you shouldn't have to check up on who's calling.
Suggestion: If the phone rings and he can't get to it, feel free to pick it up. If he can reach it, let him answer his own phone. You're his wife, not his secretary.
2006-07-08 23:37:46 · answer #5 · answered by dukefenton 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel it's a problem, I don't want him to answer my phone. Do you have trust issues?
2006-07-08 23:21:44 · answer #6 · answered by sweetLynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No if they dont have anything to hide they could care less if you answered it. So what you do it hope he goes to answer yours one of these days and act all weird , then if he even looks at you weird turn away from him and answer it, it will get his clock to ticking and he will start wondering what is going on. Hes just messin with your head ......
2006-07-08 23:25:02 · answer #7 · answered by c g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Besides phillandering the only other logical explanation is that he is a spy with the cia and it might be a call for a top secret mission. His code name might 007 and 1/2. lol
2006-07-08 23:50:30 · answer #8 · answered by RM802001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think u should c what he dose if he gets mad then he has something to hide form u and if he dont get mad then well i guess just answer his cell or dont u know what ever makes u happy
2006-07-08 23:27:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not a problem if he's not doing anything that could cause issues in your marriage.
2006-07-08 23:24:55 · answer #10 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋