2006-07-08 16:17:27 · 17 answers · asked by Me.Myself.& I 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Depends, does he have children with his ex? If so then yes you just have to deal with it. You may not always be in his life, but his child(ren) will, you dont want to put any pressure on him that will make him resent you later. If there are no child(ren) involved, then its up the couple, if your uncomfortable with it, talk to him, tell him why you dont like it, get help from a third party( one not involved in the situation). Remember just be honest. Good luck.
2006-07-08 16:24:23 · answer #1 · answered by jashme2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I easily have by no potential been an ex or had an ex, yet i do not imagine attempt to be required to be friends with the different woman or your husband. Civility is continually awesome, and being supportive in assisting one yet another out with problems with the children is large, yet friendship might want to no longer be requested. after all, if he fairly cared about the children he'd be understanding the themes he had with you. you at the instantaneous are not a foul individual, and could no longer be made to sense that way, you purely want time to heal and they want to renowned that.
2016-11-06 02:00:10 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i don't feel any woman should have to deal with her spouses ex. If they broke up then they must not like eachother . Why the hell would they want to stay friends unless their is some sort of feelings still lingering . I WOULD'NT STAND FOR THAT .If they have childern then that's diffrent as long as they'r not spending every holiday together or hangin out every time he goes to see the childern
2006-07-08 16:27:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. there is no such thing as friendship with an Ex. At least one person always continues to have feelings for the other and that is what this so-called friendship is based on. If their relationship is over then they should let it go. If he loves you he should respect your feelings and cut it off. You're the new priority.
2006-07-08 16:23:51 · answer #4 · answered by allie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Friendship", well there are some who can do that, but most cannot. I will say this, if there are any children involved they better darn well be civil to each other for the sake of the kids. I certainly didn't want any friendship with my ex, he's a psycho.
2006-07-08 16:22:25 · answer #5 · answered by MadforMAC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really is something that is different in every situation. Just keep the lines of communication open between you and your man, let him know it bothers you that he still has a relationship with his ex. Maybe if he knows how you feel he will change the situation.
2006-07-08 16:30:43 · answer #6 · answered by pineapple_34_34 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My X hubby and I are civil.....
We have 2 children together and it just makes life easier if we get along.
When he was in town a few weeks ago he stayed at my home (my current husband was Ok with it, because he knows I only love him)
2006-07-08 16:26:26 · answer #7 · answered by msdagney 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
F CK NO..if he stills wants a friendship with her they should have stayed together
2006-07-08 16:19:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO WAY!!!!!!!!!! HE OBVERSLY AINT OVER HER YET! IF HE STILL WANTS TO BE FRIENDS U JUST ON THE SIDE HUNNY PULL U OFF THE SHELF WHEN HE WANTS! OR HAVE U TO HOLD AS A PUPPET WHEN HE DOES ARGUE WIF HIS EX WIFE! GET OUT OF THAT ONE FAST HUNNY! OR TELL HIM U OR HER!
2006-07-08 16:23:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, they are X for a reason. If children are involved then a distant respect is OK.
2006-07-08 16:21:57 · answer #10 · answered by curious115 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋