anyway im 18 and hes 19 im pregnant he just keeps doing it though. Ive caught him 3 times in like the past years it makes me feel like ****, he makes plans to meet them and talks mean about me, he actually left me right before we found out i was pregnant that was about 3 months ago and hes already at it again.i cant do anything about it. Hes always justifying and making excuses, and i think theres a lot of lying too. i dont have friends anymore so can someone please tell me why they think he would be doin this, be brutal i dont care i just want to know what i should do? will he quite? I cant take it anymore.
2006-07-08 16:12:15 · 9 answers · asked by Bethy 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I have no where else to go, and NO ONE else to help me. Im stuck.
2006-07-09 10:21:05 · update #1
Wat is this?
this is not a show goin on here
this is ur life girl
u cant let a ashole who has fvcked u spoil ur life
if u still love him then im sorry for u pls try to work things out with him
and if u cant take it anymore then make him sit in front of u and talk clearly, dont worry about wat will he do or wat will become of u
this guy is clearly cheating on u and u r freely letting him treat u like a b*tch, pls take control of ur life
and if u need a further friendly advice then do contact me
I'm here for u so dont worry and talk to him without worry
if he still doesnt understand then u know better than me wat to do
2006-07-08 16:23:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 9⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you've got yourself a real winner here!!
So he always comes back to you huh? You lucky girl! I bet he even figures that he's not doing any wrong as long as he keeps his headquarters with you!! Sweetie were you born yesterday?
This guy's unhealthy pattern in relating to you borders on " emotional abuse ". He has definetly got you addicted to him. I seriously believe that you should get out of this relationship and get as far away from this guy as you can because he sounds like a jerk.
It seems this guy thrives on the attention and the " adoration " he gets from his ex's. He most definetly has a blown-up self concept of himself bordering on " narcissism ".
Like the " fly and the spider " you, honey are caught in the web of his control. He's got you so mixed up and confused, that at this point, your not sure about anything.
Honey, whenever you enable another person to determine your self-worth, you just invite a whole mess of blues and depression into your life. A relationship's outcome depends on the mutual and joint contribution of both partners.
I would seriously step back take a closer look at your relationship and consider the long-term effects that such a relationship will have on your un-born child. Being involved with this man is very likely the major reason that you are so confused and such. And no honey, this guy will never change, simply by the fact that it's been pretty much an on-going occurance, don't you think?
Anyway, sweetie I hop you make the right choice especially if there is going to be a child involved.
2006-07-09 00:31:43 · answer #2 · answered by trieghtonhere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl please, just let the guy go.. If he hadn't changed before and now having his baby will definitly NOT change him. And the fact that he has cheated on you and he will always continue to do so because you've allowed it to. He obviously doenst love you or respect you if he is still talking and seeing his ex's. You are young and eventually you will find someone that will take care of you and your baby. You cant think of yourself anymore, you got to think about your baby and what is best for him/her.
2006-07-09 00:08:22 · answer #3 · answered by babydoll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him and quick. He's sorry and if he truley cared about you he would have never even talked to an ex in the first place. And the fact that you are pregnant with his child isnt even enough to bother his conscience.
2006-07-08 23:19:14 · answer #4 · answered by heathermama_tx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him and take him to court when the baby is born and get an order for child support. He doesn't care about you, and you need to look out for yourself and your baby.
2006-07-08 23:16:32 · answer #5 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him go get like 60 dollars a week from him and wait to your baby get older and find you some one who will love and baby that is what my mother did
2006-07-08 23:22:55 · answer #6 · answered by dajonap 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him and get child support. he's not worth it . he can stress you out and make you have a miscarriage. Need help email me christinadc2002@yahoo.com
2006-07-08 23:18:56 · answer #7 · answered by christinadc2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ditch the as*ho*e...he doesn't deserve you..make him pay child support tho
2006-07-09 00:55:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on.. u'll have support from family.. he's a jerk you and your child deserves better
2006-07-08 23:16:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋