Why do so many men resent and not enjoy their masculine duties?

Question

What is more masculine than providing for the woman carrying your seed? Seeing your child grow in the woman you love. Nourishing the woman as she nourishes the child. Giving your body to the needs of the woman as she has given her body to the needs of the child.

What is more honourable than raising your own seed? A product of the love between a man and his woman. A child that admires you and seeks your faternal love and direction.

What is a greater demonstration of will and strength than providing for your family, year in and year out? Working despite fatigue and discouragement. Nowing that the sweat of your hands and the pains in your muscle have put shelter over your family, and food in their stomachs.

What gives greater pride to a man than faithfulness to his wife? Knowing she is your garden and sacred hideaway. Knowing you are the only man worthy in her eyes to enter into her gates of paradise.

Why do so many men resent and not enjoy their masculine duties?

Answer 1

Wow !
What a beautifully written poetic question that is !

You should copy and save that...

But to answer your question...

They are dogs. Yes, dogs.

A man will always and with out question, or hesitation, take the responsibility & love, of and for, his children, and put his life out on the line to protect them.

I know I do for my children...

Answer 2

Your question is a bit one sided. You make ask it as if all women are paragons of virtue. That they are devoted totally to their husbands and families.

Sadly, in truth, this is not the case. Women, just as much as men, have troubles dealing with what they and society deem as male and female "duties".

I would in turn ask why do women resent and not enjoy their duties?

What is more wonderful than caring a child and giving birth to that child? What is a greater demonstration of devotion than caring for the husband and children of the family? What greater pride is there than the faithfulness of her husband? Knowing he is your rock and protector. Knowing you are the only woman worthy in his eyes to enter her gates of paradise.

Why do so many women resent and not enjoy their duties?

Life is not a two way street. There are dead beat moms out there. Women who are not ready to handle the responsibilities of motherhood, who make terrible mistakes.

Wake up, smell the coffee and realize that there is always more than one side to every story. In fact there is normally three sides: Your side, My side and the Truth.

Answer 3

Perhaps for the same reason women resent their feminine duties! Your view of life is not unlike most people but I hope you can learn. None of us, male or female, are born with assigned duties, we are born with capabilities. Duties should be decided with fairness and logic in mind. For example, if the woman is a engineering genius and also capable of bearing children and the man is intellectually less capable but is a loving individual, should she remain home while the man goes out to work for the family unit or should she work while he cares for the child? In which scenario will the child have the better financial opportunities? Duties are assigned by society, there is nothing that compels you to obey them.

Answer 4

Un fortunately many woman think the wrong way..Its not that men don't and won't eccept responsibility its that they feel it is forced on them. A lot of women these days don't want to give a man the option to say yes or no in the first place. It is always my body my choice yet who do expect to supply the pay check? Another problem is that men already no that they aren't very good at the comforting and understanding that women seem so easy to give children but who do they look at when the kid tells them to go play with themselves...The man. Women don't cook, don't except the natural order...they want to be the boss..So have at it women the falling out hair..cancer,,stress you wanted equallity and now that you have it don't come running to us.

Answer 5

Those few'' little boys'', b/c they do not deserve to be called men, are afraid. They are too wrapped up in themselves and trying to find the next piece of booty that they do not realize that they have a huge responsibility. Those little boys make it hard for the real men out there taking care of their business, instead of backing away,like punks. It takes a real man to take care of his child and the mother that bear ed him, but it also takes a real woman to help him out. It takes two!

Answer 6

What planet are you from? I know a lot of men who do enjoy their "masculine duties."
I am not sure I understand your question. Half of what you listed are privileges of being a husband and father.

Answer 7

i don't consider what you're asserting. you're fairly claiming that adult males abandon their obligations as adult males, commonly by ability of not paying interest to his spouse, toddlers and different enjoyed ones. you experience as though adult males placed themselves formerly their kin. i think of that's incorrect. there is often going to be a minority of persons who post to selfishness like that. they are not resenting their masculine obligations-- they are merely lazy. you're merely uninformed. do not make such ignorant statements merely because of the fact the adult males on your existence can not stand your unjustified critiques.

Answer 8

It depends on the garden-- is it full of succulent flowers, or ripe with juicy peppers-- or overrun with thistles and weeds?

Answer 9

If only we all could see things in those simplistic terms.

Answer 10

They never grow up, and they can get away with it.