My, friend keeps ditching me, just so that she can talk to this guy that she likes...on the phone..I feel that friends are more important than any guy, but i also feel like i am being kinda selfish. So, can anybody give me any advice?
2006-07-08 15:16:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Quit calling your friend and see if she calls you. If she doesn't then...I think you know what kind of friend you have.
2006-07-08 15:20:10 · answer #1 · answered by Shorty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to look at it this way, She has alife away from you or she should have. You nust give her time with her man. Not sure how old they are but after the first few months when the new wears off she will start coming back around some more. Just give her time. You also need to tell her she needs to make time for you also. Good luck
2006-07-08 15:20:47 · answer #2 · answered by bigdog_0032 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you love your friend unconditionally? If you do just wish her much happiness get to know him invite them out or cook them dinner. You are not being selfish totally. You have to remember things will always change and being a good friend is a good thing. Double Date!
2006-07-08 15:26:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that happened to me but at a bar. My GF left with a guy to another bar cause she really like him. That is so wrong to be ditvh by your GF I say ignore her calls. That is rude and disrespectful to ya'lls friendship. Let her know but I know she aint gonna change. That is a selfish friend dump her!
2006-07-08 15:21:42 · answer #4 · answered by LO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
common friendship courtesy is to let your friend know if you won't make it to an outting. if she ditches you for another guy, it really says alot about her character. trust your instinct, if you're feeling mad, then you know she's not behaving like a true friend. let her know what she's doing is rude and disrespectful to the friendship.
2006-07-08 15:23:20 · answer #5 · answered by KCbella 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she cant be a good m8 iv shes dichen u for a guy and a bet when its alll over she will come crawlin bk and she will be stuck to u like glew till she finds the next 1 to move on to no affence x
2006-07-08 15:24:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're right, it's not fair. If you can, talk to her about it. However, if you're thinking that may not work, see if any of your/her other friends feel the same way. It may be easier to confront her with others with you. Good luck- this kind of situation stinks.
2006-07-08 15:20:53 · answer #7 · answered by allie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her space if the guy is a "nubie" the love is sweet and new, but I would defiantly call her on it and let her know how it makes you feel
2006-07-08 15:20:39 · answer #8 · answered by 2live 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends are forever.Boyfriends or girlfriends come and go. Tell her that
2006-07-08 15:22:36 · answer #9 · answered by Badmamajama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt be mad, let her get over it, this guy will mean nothing to her in a month, so let her be a b*tch, lol
shell realize how much you mean to her.
2006-07-08 15:21:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋