i'm depressed. i feel ugly. and i feel like nothing i ever do matters. i feel like giving up.?

Question

anyone else feel the same?

Answer 1

If you want to feel like what you do matters, go help people. The elderly and disabled can always use help and they don't care what you look like. It's better than feeling sorry for yourself. Believe me, you ARE needed.

Answer 2

You are saying all this sad stuff..and probably you not even ugly okay...you just got it all in your mind...try to do the opposite feel pretty and like you worth alot . Just be confident about yourself and dont keep your self-esteem low okay gurl? when ever you feeling terrible like you feel know...just be like " im not going to put myself down" . Put some makeup on and dress nice , and force yourself to go out and do sumthing fun even though you dont want to. Girl just get out of the freaking house enjoy life "you only live once. You could also call a friend and plan something fun. Trust i am telling you all this because somethings i feel exactly the same way you do. Keep your head up girl...the sun will shine again ok. Dont waste another precious minute of your life with worries. And if this does'nt work and feel your problems are getting worst then i suggest you to go see a psychologist. Good luck.

Answer 3

I went through some of those feelings in the past.
Then I met people who made my life seem like
a party.
Help other people feel better, Then you will.
Visit the aging, or the hospital.
If you feel ugly, turn the TV off Go get your
hair done. Set up a time with your G/F's just
to go out. This is your life, Your time to be.
Just like the saying says, "WHEN YOU HAVE YOUR
HEALTH YOU HAVE JUST ABOUT EVERYTHING.

Answer 4

what makes u think your supposed to feel so important... everything u do matters.. maybe not to other people but it certainly matters to yourself... if you're unhappy about yourself and how you feel then only you can change it... why dont you figure out whats gona make u happy and feel better and just do it instead of sitting around feeling sorry for yourself... volunteer as a big sister or at a homeless shelter ... i know that that will matter to someone who probably needs it more then you... giving up is lazy!

Answer 5

'Nothing really matters, anyone can see'....
There are a lot of things U should be feeling bad about, but take a look from the bright side of life!!! Hang out with positive people, stop searching for someone to cry with & find someone to laugh with! Smile! :)
Be happy!

Answer 6

i do feel the same, alot. the best thing that i do to make that go away is to think about my kids, my dog. i know that probably sounds corny, but, it would affect them even if you are not close to them. people do care, whether they say so or not, it is human nature, as to if something terrible should happen, the one thing that i do know, is that if something terrible happned to you, people would grieve and feel awful. then life goes on and the one gone is not really thought of anymore. even though i feel that i am a burden more than not, i don't want anyone to feel bad that i am not here anymore, especially, if i do something to myself at my own hands. you are in control of you.

Answer 7

Everyone can feel the way you do right now, but you can't give up hope. There's hope for everyone... counting you! Please talk to someone and let out your feelings, before you do something you... and/or everyone who cares for you regrets it. PLEASE!
And no matter what people say, you are beautiful, and everything you do matters. And don't worry, everyone get's depressed sometimes, but it's your friends and family, and how you deal with it that really counts. Good luck.

Answer 8

Do three things:
1. Go onto the road and find a handicapped man/woman. Look at him and think...in the given situation who is richly blessed?
2. You are not the most ugliest person around...feel your heart.
3. You are creation of the Universe don't critisize its creativity...show me what you have created, and how beautiful is it?

Answer 9

u FEEL ugly...what about the people who ARE ugly
change ur outlook y should anything have to matter
people have been to the moon even that dont matter i couldnt give a fuckn chill out life is a journey

Answer 10

i used to feel like that everyday of my teenage life. i had an ephiphany one day in the 11th or 12th grade that i cant wait for someone to find me attractive. i started picking out one thing that i liked about myself and just built on that. the thing that i liked most about myself was my brain. i started researching anything that i did not know or understand so i became smarter and people started to take notice. i started attracting other people that society had looked over and met alot of great guys and girls. i suggest that you find your thing. i heard a great quote by this guy that use to live on the streets and is now a millionaire. he said that there is no calvary coming to save you, so you have to save yourself. GOD DID NOT CREATE ANYTHING UGLY.