Everytime she sees him she stares at him and can tell you what he was wearing from the color of his shoes to the name brand on his shirt. She actually called me one day and told me that she saw a look a like of him and said that she just had to get the boys number and that we should all go on a double date. My other friends say that shes trying to be like me but I'm to sure. When I told her where he worked she went by his job almost everyday to see if he was there, claiming she was talking to him for me. Which I did not ask her to do at all. By the way we are teens. So please help!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-08 15:05:18 · 9 answers · asked by nene 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think deep down inside you do know that what your girlfriend does is no good news.
To start with her visiting his jobsite: there is no respect for you when someone does that over your head without having consulted with you. A best friend would not do that.
Next, you have noticed her stares, her ability to remember everything he wears etc. I would believe that indeed she has a crush, a dangerous one too. This has nothing to do with trying to be like you, because then she would try to copy you, and you have not said anything about that.
I would suggest that you take her for a walk and have a heart to heart talk to her. She needs to respect you what she does shows no respect for you as a person or as a friend. If your girlfriend does not want to do that and disagrees then you might consider dropping her out of your circle of friends, even if it hurts. Good Luck
2006-07-08 15:12:59 · answer #1 · answered by MARIANNE G 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes on the crush theory. I believe a logical next step would be to set aside some 'alone' time with your boyfriend and confide in him your discomfort about how the other girl is acting and this is your time to evaluate very carefully his response and his facial expressions, whether he is amiable to discussing it with you or whether he would like to move on to a different subject. This kind of conversation will tell you if the other girl has been successfull or not and it will test your boyfriend's ability to engage in problem solving conversation with you. Because the other girl won't be the only problem you'll both have to deal with during your time together.
2006-07-08 22:12:42 · answer #2 · answered by nothing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already know she wants him. You are young and dating, right? You have to trust your boyfriend. If he wants to be faithful, he will be. If he doesn't, he won't. You telling her to knock it off will not work, may work if he tells her he is not interested. I would watch and not entertain your friends obvious need for attention. Keep in mind from now on that she does not appear to be a friend you can trust. Be careful with the information you give her and if she asks about your change in behavior, tell her why.
2006-07-08 22:19:06 · answer #3 · answered by brenda c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah she probably does. It only makes since really. Your friends because you've got a lot in common so apparently so is your taste in guys. Nothin to freak about though, he's your guy. And if your worried he'd cheat or something then just break up with him and stop being paranoid.
2006-07-08 22:12:35 · answer #4 · answered by Douglas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh but yes, she sounds like she likes him a lot so u may want to watch her,
For her to name his clothes and saw a guy who looks like him tells me she's likes him( she's pretty bold to be this way to u) I would watch her because she's after ur guy, and the reason she looks for a guy who looks like him says she wants what u have and she may do whatever she feels she needs to do to get it, so watch er like a hawk, because the claws are out and she's ready to strike.
Don't be too quick to call her ur friend either sweetie, gilrs like her are not friends honey, she may be a backstabber and hawks & backstabbers are not to be trusted.
U may want to have a talk with her.
But remember
WATCH HER
2006-07-08 22:13:15 · answer #5 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah, she's not a very cool friend! I think you can see that. Take it from a 'thirysomething'...she will hurt you, so ditch her now!
2006-07-08 22:09:22 · answer #6 · answered by Metallichick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow she sounds obsesed and like she is trying to be like you. talk to her about it ask her what her deal is.. thats kinda creepy
2006-07-08 22:10:39 · answer #7 · answered by emhoneytigger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you even dating??????? you cant legaly get married untel 18, so whay date?
2006-07-08 22:08:08 · answer #8 · answered by LOOPYLUNG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I GUESS SHE LIKES HIM BUT HEY ASK HER IF SHE LIKES HIM THEN YOU WILL KNOW.
2006-07-08 22:14:52 · answer #9 · answered by Vi_PrInCeSs305 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋