a week after my period me and my boyfriend had sex and i used a spermicide trjoan condom, and it was the first time so its real slow and nothing extreme and it wasnt for long and it wasnt enjoyable because it was the first time. lol anyways he pulled out right away when he ejcualted and everything showed up in the condom. This happpend a week from today and i was wondering if i should be worried if im pregnant because im going crazy and since my periods are irregular im suppose to ethier get it this end of the month or next month. I have no signs of pregnancey i lookedup but i need your advice and i dont think i need to take a test but i need some reassurance because im scared even though everything went into the condom and nothing leaked out.
i would appricate your help as soon as possible .
thank you christine
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2006-07-08 14:54:39 · 17 answers · asked by Christine R 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Hehe... I did the same thing the first time I had sex...
and then I thought that I was pregnant...
But you really have nothing to worry about...
Every girl thinks that she's pregnant after her first time.
Most likely you are not pregnant.
After you do it a few more times you wont worry so much.
Just use a condom and have some fun.
2006-07-08 14:57:44 · answer #1 · answered by m_thurson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Christine it sounds like you are too young and naive to be having sex in the first place but....if you are going to you should consider a second form of birth control such as the pill. Kudos on using the condom though, good start. If your period is not yet late and you are not having any early signs of pregnancy yet (nausea, tender breasts, frequent urination) then you probably have nothing to worry about. There are tests on the market that can tell you if you are pregnant as early as a couple of days before your period is due. You could put your mind at ease by either getting one of these tests or going to a free clinic. They are confidential and income based so if you are a young teenager and working very little or not at all there should be minimal or no cost to you. They also will not tell your parents. You could get a free pregnacy test there, condoms, other birth control if desired and an experienced professional to answer all of your questions. Continue to be careful and be safe but be sure to educate yourself about all the pros and cons of sex at a young age.
2006-07-08 15:01:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, don't worry, your fine. You should get on birth control now if you are using condoms because that would be a great back up and they would keep you from worrying even more. You can get them from panned parenthood without a parents consent and for a very reasonable price. You shouldn't worry sweetie, but if you do worry, just go to dollar tree and buy one of their cheep pregnancy tests about a month after you have sex. That way if you are pregnant you will get a result, and they are cheep. Please don't worry though, you are fine. To tell you the truth, I am married use birth control, get my period, and sometimes I still feel pregnant (wishful thinking). So I am just the same way. Have a nice night sweetie!
2006-07-08 15:03:38 · answer #3 · answered by twisteddistance 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a rule, the week before you period and the week after it are considered the "safest" weeks not to get pregnant. You used the right precautions and since your boyfriends *** was in the condom, it didn't leak! Lucky you! You should be ok. sn marks3kids@yahoo.com Good Luck
2006-07-08 14:59:02 · answer #4 · answered by marks3kids 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If everything went into the condom then you have nothing to worry about. If you want to be sure then take a pregnancy test at the beginning of the month.
2006-07-08 14:57:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry to much, You usually don't ovulate until the 14-17th day of your cycle and since you are irregular it could be longer. If you want to be on the safe side go get a blood test done at a local clinic, then you don't have to stress. Stress can cause you to have an even longer cycle with no period....you don't want that.
2006-07-08 14:59:10 · answer #6 · answered by famousgirlnyc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You souldn't be worried if you used the condom at all times whenever he penetreted you in your vagina. Remember this! Everytime you have intercourse (penis inside vagina) you MUST wear a condom. Some sperm can go out with male lubrication even when he does not ejaculate inside you. Some couples have intercourse and whenever the man feels he is about to ejaculate, get his penis out of the vagina, wears a condom and continues with the intercourse. This last is WRONG for preventing pregnancy. As I told before the condom should be worn at all times when doing penetration in the vagina in order to prevent pregnancy, and at all times any time in order to prevent any sexual disease.
2006-07-08 15:02:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your nerves are wreaking havoc on you....whether its your first time, or your 1000th.....i dont think youll beable to rest you have proof right in your hands. the home pregnancy tests are only 6.00, take one. but i would say you are not pregnant! if your going to have an active sex life, maybe you should try the birth control pill, just a thought.....alot more convenient, but more side affects
2006-07-08 15:02:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it happened to me before but most condom doesn't work well! i haven't had my period for three months until i found out i was preg. Now tha ti am 8 months preg. the father left me and wanna to go out with a guy! if i was you, go to the doctor and found out if you are or not!
2006-07-08 14:58:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do your parents know? I really don't know because I haven't been in a situation like that! Ask someone u trust that can take u 2 have a test!
2006-07-08 16:03:12 · answer #10 · answered by KeeKee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋