Lady my sister just informed about seeing my boyfriend coming out of the movie theater with his arms around some other girl. I broke out in a jealous panick because she might be lying. My bf swore to me that I'm the only one. Who should i believe?
2006-07-08 14:24:27 · 20 answers · asked by may 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
How well do you know your sister? Go with your instincts, if somethings telling you somethings not right then 9 times out of 10 it isn't.
2006-07-08 14:27:14 · answer #1 · answered by Gia S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, here goes nothing. First off, how well do you and your sister get along? How much do you trust her? Does she like your boyfriend, have anything against him or want him for herself?
Second, are you and him having any problems at home at all? Do you know where he was suppose to be at when she said that she saw him?Has he ever gave you a reason to think that he has ever cheated on you? Have you notice any difference in the way he acts around you? Does he ever go into town with out you? Does he ever go to work earlier or work later once in awhile? When you ask him a question, does he repeat the question back to you, and hesitate and then answer you?
You need to look for little tell tell signs that might be left by mistake. If I knew more about this, it would sure make it a little easier. This is the best that I can do for now. But just go over some of these questions that I have asked and see what you answer yes and what you answer no and I bet that you will get your answer.
Last but not least, no man will ever tell you that he was with another woman, that is unless he is stupid!!! Good luck!!!!
2006-07-08 21:52:58 · answer #2 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, why would your sister lie to you? That sounds like a bad situation. Second, never believe the guy, unless your sister may have ulterior motives. The guy is probably lying. You are young, don't sell yourself short. You should have a one strike policy unless you are married and kids are involved, then maybe you can work things out. Otherwise, peace out all guys who don't give you the golden fleece. Be a princess.
2006-07-08 21:29:35 · answer #3 · answered by geniusH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To tell you the truth I really don't know. If someone has told you before that they see you bf with a lot of girls all the time or you have suspected it then you should believe your sister. If your sister likes to play jokes on you and lie on the time then you should believe your bf. Good luck!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-08 21:28:11 · answer #4 · answered by blessed_in07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should always trust yourself, the only thing your sister can say if you catch him is, 'I told you so'. What really matters is your feelings. If he doesn't even have a valid alilbi, he's not worth stressing over. At least he cares about you enough not to do it in your face. There are too many other men out there who know how to treat a girl.
2006-07-08 21:30:47 · answer #5 · answered by Lisha W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU SHOULD BELIEVE YOUR SISTER BECAUSE SHE IS YOUR BLOOD AND NOBODY CAN TAKE THAT AWAY. SOME BOY IS NOT EVEN WORTH LOSING YOUR RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN YOU AND YOUR SISTER. ONE THING YOU SHOULD ALWAYS KNOW IS THAT FAMILY COMES FIRST KNOW MATTER HOW BAD IT IS. EVEN KNOW YOUR BOYFRIEND TOLD YOU THAT HE ONLY WANT YOU THAT DON'T MEAN NOTHING BECAUSE BOYS ARE GONE DO ANYTHING TO KEEP ONE MAIN LADY. SO DO YOURSELF A FAVORITE AND BELIEVE YOUR SISTER.
2006-07-08 21:34:05 · answer #6 · answered by Eboni W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, does she have any reason to lie to you at all? If not, I think maybe she might be telling the truth. Follow your heart and your MIND. Good luck!
2006-07-08 21:28:25 · answer #7 · answered by Crystal L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow wow woo....Hard but hurt too. As long as you don't have proff by your eyes, don't believe anything people said about him but keep alert for anything about him. Not mean you must be a unreasonable jealous but stay back and rilex.
2006-07-08 21:30:24 · answer #8 · answered by Miss Rare 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares if he has his arm around another girl... whats the big f#*$ing deal as long as he aint stickin his finger in the honey pot... Chill out
2006-07-08 21:27:19 · answer #9 · answered by Liquor Sick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your sister might be lying out of jealousy. She might not.
2006-07-08 21:28:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋