well im 8mos pregnant and my baby daddy left me i really cant get over him when i go to sleep and im dreaming i dream about him and i hear his voice i hear him laugh and i see him smile in my mind and when i think of him i feel sad i really dont know if i love him or im just angry
2006-07-08 14:19:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Love is a complicated feeling, and your question is hard to answer. Your "love" for him might just be a phantom feeling left over because of a big change (he left you), or it might be for real. If it is real, you'll eventually get over it. Sorry if that sounded blunt. But just focus on other things, and sometime in the future you'll most likely find another guy, one with a big heart who won't leave an 8 month pregnant lady that HE fertilized!
2006-07-08 16:17:17 · answer #1 · answered by Bondy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have a boyfriend and I have feelings for him, but sometimes I think about my ex boyfriend and I dream about him all the time. Was your babys daddy your first love? Cuz you know the saying first loves you never forget! But Because he is your babys daddy sorry to say it but you will never forget him! Maybe you will stop loving him someday only time will tell. But be strong!
2006-07-08 21:27:42 · answer #2 · answered by shasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't sound angry to me. I would hope you love him, or at least thought you did since you are soon to have his baby. Lean on other adults in your life for support, you will be just fine. Your baby needs you to focus on him/her also. You may miss him in your life because you are used to him, not necessarily in love. There is a huge difference.
2006-07-08 21:26:00 · answer #3 · answered by Kimmy K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's love alright, but damn why he left u like that after being pregnant? I hope all goes well for you, and ur baby is well supported, put ur baby first =p
2006-07-08 21:32:14 · answer #4 · answered by MisSieS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no such thing as love... what you feel is withdraw... when your with someone for a long time you get addicted to their pheromones... when they are gone you feel withdraw... like a drug addict... like any addiction once the chemical is out of your system for a while you will begin to feel normal again.
2006-07-08 21:45:57 · answer #5 · answered by Michael G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you really want that perfect family.
you are sad because he left and you won't have that perfect thing you want.
you deal with it by dreaming about what would have happened if he stayed.
2006-07-08 22:36:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you hold his child so you will always love him and it's normal for you to still think about him. Juat rmemeber you have to do whats best for your baby.
2006-07-08 23:10:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like love to me,,or obsession but we will stick with love
2006-07-08 21:22:28 · answer #8 · answered by need4speed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
too bad...in love?
maybe you are but you must understand that you will be emotional for a long time to come...
2006-07-08 21:23:33 · answer #9 · answered by Linnie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only you will know when you love someone. it'll be a sensational feeling that only you can understand.
2006-07-08 21:23:57 · answer #10 · answered by Rae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋