Tell me what is with me?

Question

I feel lonely>I get out> take the car>to go & meet ppl> & I end up in a mountain or roaming on the roads... (some times)
What is my prob? Don't I fit anywhere ?? (With the good meaning)
Please tell

Answer 1

your cool. 25% of people don't have close friends. you fit i a large group that is growing. just yahoo a little like the rest of us

Answer 2

I don't think you have listed enough information for people to be able to determine your problem. It could be any one of a large number of possibilities. Maybe an answer will resonate with you, but some of us respondents may be trying to read into your problem based on our life experiences.

I felt lonely in NYC, because people don't always connect very well there but I was able to make many more connections when I moved to a friendly, small, midwestern town and had children. Perhaps finding a place that has more people like you would do the trick. There are lots of walking paths in my community and I can always meet lots of dog walkers. There are lots of online chat sites and dating services these days.

Now if you think the problem is with you, you might consider getting a reference to a really good therapist who can help you work on your problem.

Given that you think the solution to your problem is meeting people but you end up in nice peopleless places, it may be that you have some fear or other discomfort when it comes to meeting people. It sounds like you are trying to improve your situation by getting out to the mountains, but what you really need to improve your situation is meeting people. If you go to where people can be found and you don't meet any, that could lead to disappointment and a feeling of hopelessness, which would make going to the mountains a preferred choice. At least you know what you are getting in the mountains.

Answer 3

You are sounding a little depressed to me. I choose to go to
a park when I am depressed - I take my camera and I try to
forget about it.

If you have these questions - have you thought about counseling?
Of course, you fit. You are a child of God. He knows every hair
on your head. :) Maybe you need some meds - what has
changed in your life recently? are you sad for a reason?
It's normal to feel lonely, especially if you are single. I feel lonely
too. I just go on... I talk to the Lord and He helps me. Have
you accepted Him as your Lord? I suggest you do so, and you
will find that God loves you! Read the gospel of John in the
Bible - it may help you.

Try a hobby - I do scrapbooking & photography - get your mind
off of it. I hope this helps...

Answer 4

Take some time and find those who like the outdoors and the mountains, just as you do. Campers, backpackers, hickers, hicking groups, climbing groups. Or perhaps, motorcycle touring groups, who like to roam the roads and mountains too. Once you find your groups, you'll find you fit in and in fact, there are no problems.

Best to you.

Answer 5

You are probably a very cool person having trouble finding
cool likeminded people that you would rather be with.
Alone, at least you really enjoy your company! :)

Try browsing the camping supply departments and stores
a little more than usual, and trying online sites to make
friends www.okcupid.com is a good one.

If you are ok with your own company, it's a good thing
not to fit in. Personally, I'm glad I don't fit in with my peers!

Answer 6

Yeah well, just stop fooling yourself, ok?
If you really wanted to "fit" somewhere you could do it!
But actually you find it annoying after you are accepted and the challenges are gone plus you hate how shallow some people are.
Move on to some huge city where its easier to meet the right people that really fit with you and start living!

Answer 7

i used to feel the same way. just keep moving until you find someone you fit in with. that person will pobably be with a group that you fit with so dont worry about it. i did but i just kept moving on and found people that i fit in with great. i have seen others do it too so its not just me.

Answer 8

hiya you dont say your age but that dosent matter no matter what age you are there are local groups in most areas now why dont you look on your internet or your local paper to find them out to see if there are any that takes your fancy. there are lots of single people trying to start clubs to get doing things. see if you can find some. you may find one you like. good luck

Answer 9

IT SOUNDS LIKE UR DEPRESSED. IVE BEEN THERE. U JUST HAVE TO GET OUT AND MAKE YOUR SELF HAVE FUN. SEEK HELP IF U NEED IT. DONT STAY FEELIN LIKE THAT ITS NOT GOOD. IF U WANT TO TALK INSTANT MESSAGE ME OR EMAIL ME AT [e-mail] ANYTIME IM HERE FOR U IF U NEED A FRIEND.

Answer 10

Think what made u act this way. Read a lot about practical ways of socialising. Be clear about what u want.