my biggest prob is that people think that im so young I mean even in my college im the youngest(1 year younger then ppl in my class) and they tease me all the time. they don't listen to me and they keep telling me that im a child and there's alot in this world that i still don't know about while i think that my brain works better than theirs..they judge for their looks and they only trying to have fun in anyway even in a wrong way while i try to have fun in a good way and make ppl have fun with me too..I enjoy doing alot of good stuff although im not that good actually but at least i try
so how can i make ppl see that im 18 not 8 years old?!!
2006-07-08 13:46:17 · 5 answers · asked by cutie_gurl 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
yeah thank you all, you really helped me..
but i've got another thing to say..
How do I make guys love me for me not for my look..I mean guys keep telling me that they have crush on me bcoz they find me good looking and stuff..so im worried if i'll they guy that im in love with likes me for my look only...how can I make sure..although I really have a good personality im sociable and fun and at the same time im the person who can anyone turn to when they are down...
another thing...plz; how does my english sound?? since its not my mother language..plz be honest!!!
thanxxxx
2006-07-08 13:59:39 · update #1
The first thing is to try hard to not let that get to you. I know it's hard, but people are that way because they are ignorant and they just have to pick and then on the second hand, maybe they are just razzing you because you are the youngest one and you should learn to take it humorously and like a sport.
You shouldn't have to prove yourself to anyone, just continue to do your best and be your best and as long as you know that is what you are doing then that is really what counts.
If I worried about the nasty opinions of others, I would never leave my house. Someone always has to voice their opinion about something or someone.
2006-07-08 13:53:14 · answer #1 · answered by HappyCat 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
First you have to ask yourself: Do you respect yourself? If you do, do you show it in the way you act?
For example, if someone is pushing you over, do you just roll over, or do you stand up for what you think is right? If you dont respect yourself, then nobody else will.
that said, maybe you need to get some friends who respect what you bring to the table.
2006-07-08 20:57:46 · answer #2 · answered by kp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 18 treasure it!! I wish people still treated me like that,don't be in such a hurry to grow up!!
2006-07-08 20:52:57 · answer #3 · answered by LUNCHY THE PIRATE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be so wrapped up in their comments and opinions. They keep doing it because they see that it upsets you. I would ignore them, do my work, and you will eventually find real friends.
2006-07-08 20:54:05 · answer #4 · answered by sam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you dress your age if not try to. try to act mature.
2006-07-08 20:52:56 · answer #5 · answered by here_2_help 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋