If your waiter's pants were unzipped would you tell him?

Question

I did. I felt sorry for him, so I motioned for him to come over and I whispered in his ear that his pants were unzipped. Would you tell your waiter that? I hope I didn't embarrass him, but what would be worse? Walking around taking orders all night with your zipper down or having a woman tell you?

It was very obvious and it was eye level. My mom noticed too, but I was the one to tell him. The most embarrassing part was when my mom told him that was the best thing we've seen all day. OMG! I wanted to crawl under the table. (I'm 25, just incase yall were wondering) I hope he didn't really understand English well. He had an Italian accent.

Answer 1

I would have done it the same way you did. You saved him the embarrassment of going through the restaurant with his fly down, and when you told him, you didn't announce it to the world. You did the right thing.

Answer 2

It is never appropriate for a female to tell a stranger that his pants are unzipped. If no one tells him, he may think no one noticed, but it is almost certain that one of his supervisors will notice and make him aware. You were trying to be helpful and if this is the worst faux pas you ever make, you have nothing to worry about. Now is a good time to remind yourself about "familiarity". What that means is : do not talk to strangers the same way you do friends, and do not talk to men the way you do to girls your own age. The reason for this is as a protective measure, and if you break boundary lines, people regard you as aggressive and/or too forward. Good Luck !

Answer 3

I suppose that I would if I noticed it, but that would mean that it was very prominent as I usually don't see things like that. The key is to be discreet. Maybe tearing off a piece of a napkin with the information written, then showing him it would work best. It's better to handle it sooner than later because who knows what loudmouth might point it out.

Answer 4

If it really is making you lose your urge for nutrition and also you're afraid you gained't eat or some thing because it really is demanding, i'd tell him. i'm particular it embarassed him somewhat, yet I advise, who does not be embarassed? I wager he's grateful you spotted beforehand lengthy.

Answer 5

If I was him, I'd be glad you told me. I wouldn't want to be walking around with my zipper un-zipped. It's embarrassing, and you saved him from that. So yes, I would definitely tell him. He deserves to know.

Answer 6

Yes, it's the right thing to do. If you were at work and something was not right wouldn't you appreciate that someone showed you the right way or corrected you?

Answer 7

Yes, You did the right thing. Better for a little embarrassment in front of you, than in front of EVERYONE..


God bless & Hugs from Texas. {:-)
<><

Answer 8

Good move. And you whispered it, even better. You could do that or take him aside while you go "freshen up". That way, your boyfriend won't think you're giving him your #.

Answer 9

You are right. I thinks that a good way to tell him rather than keep quiet.

Answer 10

No, but that's me. If it was a waitress, I might consider telling her, but I might decide not to. The key word is might.