Honestly if it was between those choices I would choose that my significant other have sexual relations but have no attachment though. Now if I found out and just knew about it. Than of course than I would leave the relationship. But if his part was just as for fun and he really loves me and does everything to prove to me that he wants to be with me. Well, if I felt the same way than I'll take him back as long as it doesn't happen again. But I'm not forgiving at all. It's just giving me the chance to have sexual relations with someone else. It's just for fun too and I need to enjoy myself. Now I know that doesn't lead to a serious, healthy relationship. But after he finds out I don't think there would be anything more. But like it's said "Two can play that game". And I'm coming back hard when it's time for me to play my game.
2006-07-08 13:05:02
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answered by Rochelle 3
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I'd rather have them have sexual relations with someone else, but I'm thinking that would go into the same category as them being emotionally attached to this other person cuz why else would they cheat on me sexually. And if their that emotionally attached to someone else I'm pretty sure the sex would happen eventually.
2006-07-08 13:01:41
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answered by Anonymous
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I'd rather he have a sexual relationship. I would rather have him be emotionally attached to me then someone else. That matters more in a relationship then sex. You can have sex without attachment.
2006-07-08 14:25:49
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answered by piperhound 3
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If I had to choose I'd say emotionally because I'd like to think that if he wanted to be with somebody else more than myself then he would end the relationship with me before becoming sexually involved with the other person.
2006-07-08 13:02:48
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answered by Miss England 3
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The first option, because basically if he's emotionally attached to another person, then I've pretty lost him!
But if he's just messing around and having sex every two seconds, at least I know he doesn't love them and just fooling around.
2006-07-08 13:00:44
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answered by Pinky 3
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Have sexual relations..neither is great but I think it's the lesser of the two "evils"
2006-07-08 13:07:32
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answered by SeeNoEvil 6
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Have sexual relations
2006-07-08 13:14:10
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answered by Judas Rabbi 7
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just sexual relations with someone else as long as they practised safe sex, because sex is really unimportant to me, & yet emotional devotion is everything
2006-07-08 13:00:32
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answered by Kiss my Putt! 7
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i would rather my mat was having sex with someone else and was emotionally attcahed to me!
2006-07-08 17:22:45
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answered by powder_blue_tang 3
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Gotta be sexual relations - maybe I could watch!! ;)
2006-07-08 12:59:27
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answered by Tatsbabe 6
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