I have alot of females friends but my mate does not want me to have them because she thinks i would cheat. I have a very high sex drive and she does not. i want sex 24/7 with a female i have a girl at home that does not understand me. what should i do? Yes we have sex but it is not enough. now she thinks if we have a child together it will bring us closer together. my problem is the sex i just think about how many ways i could put a real women.someone that understands please let me know what i should do.
2006-07-08 12:55:36 · 14 answers · asked by missunderstoodalot507 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If sex is that important to you and not to her, you should be honest with her and yourself and realize that this relationship will not work out.
In my relationship I think my husband would like sex a lot more that I do, but for us there are a lot of other factors that make our relationship so ideal (we are business partners and parents and so many things together) that the sex issue, while annoying to him, is not a deal breaker. It does not sound like that is the case for you. Be realistic and don't knowingly put yourself into a permanent relationship that will not satisfy you. It will result in heart break, financial problems and a difficult childhood for any children you might have in it.
Peace!
2006-07-08 13:02:47 · answer #1 · answered by carole 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you like a lot of women ? The fact that you like a lot of women and have a high sex drive, it will be very hard or near impossible for you not to cheat on your woman. Your woman is right to think you may be cheating if you are around a lot of women. The fact that you like a lot of sex and that what you get from her is not enough, you both have to discuss the future of your relationship together and you will know were to take things from there.
Bringing a child into the world in the current situation with your woman, is not going to improve at all unless you both discuss your situation; and know were you go from there. As having a child is a 24/7 job. If you are not up to being a good father, don't bring a child into the world and complicate things even more.
2006-07-08 20:13:12 · answer #2 · answered by Premio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A relationship should not be based on sex, but that's not to say that sex isn't quite important...if both parties aren't on the same page in that area, it can cause a lot of problems...
Perhaps, in spite of how much you care for your partner, the two of you just aren't suited as a romantic couple...your sex drive being much higher than hers will always cause a problem...her knowing that you want sex more than she, and then you spending time with other females, only makes it worse...naturally, she's going to fear that you are cheating on her because she knows you're not getting enough of what you want from her...
A child will not help the situation y'all are in...don't allow a baby to be used as a relationship band aid...counseling might help, but in truth, it's unlikely to make much different in lowering your drive or raising hers...
It may be time to consider what's more important to you...satisfying your sex drive, or staying with this particular woman?
2006-07-08 20:01:18 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me, anything that you do that you know your partner wouldn't be happy about if she knew you did it is cheating. However, the real question you should be asking yourself is, 'Should I be in a relationship with someone whom I am sexually incompatible?' Though sex is not everything, it is most certainly a major part of relationships and if you are unhappy now, it will only get worse as time goes by (a child will certainly not help the situation, only give her more reasons to say "I'm not in the mood" or "I'm busy").
2006-07-08 20:03:25 · answer #4 · answered by Ring Ring Ring Bananaphone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need someone who is on your level. having a child will not make this better. having female friends is not cheating unless you are cheating. Talk to your girlfriend too and see if you are doing anything for her. Sometimes men think they are the best lovers and they are the worst. Just tell her to be honest and you will not be offended.
2006-07-08 20:01:35 · answer #5 · answered by Venessa B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we have something in common, i like to have sex 24/7 with a female as well.and unless you are both monogomous in your relationship then she has the right to think that.until you make a commitment to her she will always think you will cheat, step up,make a commitment to her,by the way did i mention i like sex with females 24/7.hope this helps
2006-07-08 20:09:55 · answer #6 · answered by spocklogical1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being the guy i am i would say to say if the gurl ur with isn't giving you enough sex than go with someone that does. If she doesn't give u enough sex take it to a friend level.
2006-07-08 20:01:39 · answer #7 · answered by sillypotthead 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The relationship is not healthy if you aren't happy, and a child is not a relationship band-aid. Children are the hardest thing on a relationship, so it should be in good standing before having one.
2006-07-08 19:58:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel. And a kid wont make anybody closer together unless both partners are ready to have a child.
2006-07-08 19:58:29 · answer #9 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Humans are naturally jealous. So, I don't know. Find a way to win her trust.
2006-07-08 19:59:28 · answer #10 · answered by Matt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋