2006-07-08 12:51:38 · 16 answers · asked by Rosario U 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
All right, I must admit you have made your point very clear!
Likewise your wording is quite sound.
Perhaps we must give it a second thought and
Elaborate the other way around as well
Really do you want to get it right?
2006-07-08 12:54:14 · answer #1 · answered by Roland 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are trying to find the perfect person. Well I am here to tell you there is no such a person. You mus take some bad with the good the idea is to find a person you think you can not live with out. Than let that person be who they are. Do not try to fix the part you do not like. If you stop looking you will find the right person sooner.
2006-07-08 19:58:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're probably not looking for the "right" person.
There's a difference between a person that's "right" for us and a person that we "want" to be with. The right person shares your values, supports your goals and can be counted on when times are tough. Unfortunately, this isn't exciting or attractive to a lot of people. They need their short-term needs met (e.g.lust, excitement, etc.)
I'm not saying that you can't lust after Mr. or Mrs. Right. It's just that, if you rely on things that temporarily satisfy you, the relationship is doomed. You need to set realistic expectations for your significant other. If you want excitement, be exciting! If you want lust, be lust-worthy! Don't just look for these things in the other person.
If you make yourself the first source of happiness in your life, you will be much happier with Mr. or Mrs. Right. If you look for things in a significant other that are enduring--great conversation, similar values, trustworthiness--then you will be much happier with Mr. or Mrs. Right.
So, it may just be that you've found Mr. or Mrs. Right. You just didn't know it. Or, it may be that you've been searching for the wrong person all along.
2006-07-08 20:04:45 · answer #3 · answered by silly rabbit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's alot of people in the world saying the same thing....stop looking, when the time is right mr or miss right will be there
2006-07-08 19:55:15 · answer #4 · answered by X's Mommy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes the problem may be you. Do you know exactly what you are looking for? Also, where are you looking? Looking in the wrong place may lead you to bad people.
2006-07-08 20:35:26 · answer #5 · answered by Krissy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all are you looking hard enough? What you need to do is broaden your horizon, don't be too picky. When someone doesn't meet your criteria then maybe your standards are too high. I'm not saying settle for less, settle for someone who makes you happy.
2006-07-08 19:56:11 · answer #6 · answered by Spaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not looking for the right thing if you are only looking for beauty. You have to look at the heart
2006-07-08 20:02:27 · answer #7 · answered by Mr. Clean 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cuz ur never at the right time and right place....
or may be u hav already find it and that u should hav kept ur eyes a little more opened
2006-07-08 20:43:53 · answer #8 · answered by rapstar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are always trying to "get" something. Please start giving and the right person will find you.
2006-07-15 04:01:34 · answer #9 · answered by StraightDrive 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who is the wrong person?
2006-07-08 19:54:22 · answer #10 · answered by tampamar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋