for gay guys only?

Question

do any of u gay guys even like girly men?

Answer 1

as long as there's a penis, i want him.

Answer 2

If i ever like girly men, I go for real woman.
They are girly enough.

Since, I prefer guys and am Gay about it.
Give me real gay guys. One whom have good taste, good PR skill and the skill of nuturing another person.

I have my brush with girly man. They are girly enough to be a woman. But I prefer the strong arm and touch, hug from a guy, not from a woman. Sorry, sister.

Answer 3

I think your question is founded on the fact that you have some personal issue regarding the prescence of an effeminate gay man around you, its completely understandable if it is true, they sort of weird people out, if it's not true, my apologies.

To answer your question. And for the rest of the guys out there who might take offense, please hold your insults for later. Do what we "gay people of the new generation" do the least... Read.

There is a vast majority of gay guys out there that choose to live lives as normally as they could, those who choose to live as society expects them to, basically speaking, as a man. Now, these gay people did not necessarily choose to live like this, there are certain circumstances that would bar them from associating with openly "loud" gay guys, like work pressure, familial conservatism, and so on... Mind you, they are out of the closet and their immediate circles are aware of their sexual orientation. However, there are certain things that are still deemed unacceptable in some niches in human society.

I for one am a gay man, and even though i would want to be as flambouyant as Judy Garland in Meet Me in St. Louis, i can't, and here are the reasons why; I work as a marketing executive in a conservative, Catholic country. I would not progress in my career if i show up to work in a dress (besides, it snags my fur). Likewise, i wouldn't want to have a partner who will be the center of attention in water cooler gossip marathons, that would be a big no-no in the corporate world.

I am not stuffing every queen in the closet, but sometimes, even if we feel like we're dividing the community, there are certain things that are just to be considered inappropriate period. I am here to say that i don't approve of "girliness", if i wanted a limp-wristed, swooning, waifish partner, i would have taken a wife. I have been around and worked with gay people, straight people and all the types in between, under all the false pretense of orientation, politics and all that jazz, i still know for a fact that you are a man... therefore, act like one.

It's not that you should forget about screwing guys, who would want to give that up? But when off your back, you have to be prepared to face reality that there is still something dangling between your legs.

My advice to those labeled "Girly", get a grip, get an education, get a job and get a life. It's not that hard to be normal. You don't have to scream "I'm Gay" to the world, all you need is to be the best in your field, be the best in your class, be the best in your line of work, and people will admire and respect you because you proved them wrong, that gay people aren't really the limp-wristed creatures that the breeders believe they are. Don't give the breeders the opportunity to say you're weak.

And man, it's just hell to kiss a guy in a dress.

Answer 4

I am personally NOT girly. I act completely straight as a matter of fact. People are surprised when they hear. Anyhow, for me, there is a difference between homosexual and just plain queer. Queers are the girly ones who act like fairies, and wear girl clothes and makeup, and flaunt their flambouyant selves all over the place and say "Notice me, I'm gay!", and that's all right; people are entitled to do this, but for me it's just a big turn off.

Answer 5

I won't get into the gender problems society has that the traits you're referring to are considered "girly". I will say that effeminate men and drag queens have and will probably continue to take the brunt of the abuse that gets hurled at the community, and that anyone within who complains about them needs to shut up.

As you seem to be speaking from outside the community, you probably alread know this full well (or will if you think about who makes you more uncomfortable).

Answer 6

There is already more than enough prejudice to go around. We do not need to divide our own group into splinters of like and dislike...it is stick together and win the battle, or split up and perish. Why in the world would a "girly man" bother any of you...no one said you have to go to bed with them...but why would they bother you? Seems to me you have bigger problems than the idiot straights who don't like Gays!

Answer 7

Girly men, not for me.

Answer 8

i am girly,but dont consider myself to be a man,im too feminine to be one.And yes some men do like feminine guys,they like to be dominant with us and make us obey them while treating us like the sissies we are

Answer 9

I like normal men.

Answer 10

If its their natural personalities I can put up with with it. If its an act I hate it and think it's annoying. Either way, its a turnoff.

Answer 11

I like most people.
I'm sexually attracted to masculine guys who just happen to like guys. But I like others.