im reallyyy shy when it comes to having coversations. its not that im shy its just i dont knw wat to talk bout even if i knw the person well its like no ideas come to me can anyone plzz help i really appriciate it thankssss
2006-07-08 12:28:43 · 11 answers · asked by help 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
this used to happen to me too. my mind would go blank. I always thought that I should only say things if they were important, not just babble on. but the truth is, it doesn't so much matter what you talk about. even silly stupid crap that doesn't mean much of anything can help you bond to people. open up. trust yourself. relax. it's not really that hard, unless you let yourself make it hard.
you know, you could always talk about some of the dumb questions people ask on this site
2006-07-09 06:34:54 · answer #1 · answered by Gabrielle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I read the newspaper or wacth the news just to have something to talk about at work. Whether its a power ball numbers, the sports scores the general news and even the weather is a good one if you can predict the degrees by the hour thats good office fun. Seems you need to loosin up and find some creative ways to make your shyness work for you. But don't get to self center.
2006-07-08 19:34:09 · answer #2 · answered by c b basic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop thinking so hard, and just go with the flow.If you really freeze up, try to think of some questions to ask people before you head to a social function. EVERYONE loves to talk about themselves, so ask lots of questions, and you'll see a conversation develop. Ask them where they are from, where they go to school, what their favorite band is, how big their family is, what their favorite thing to do on the weekend is, and just see how things develop from there.
2006-07-08 19:32:09 · answer #3 · answered by KB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah you need to get rid of shyness. I'm really shy and now the only way I can approach some1 is on the internet. Take HEED MORTAL!! FIX YOURSELF B4 YOU BECOME LIKE MEE!!!!!!!
2006-07-08 19:31:47 · answer #4 · answered by General X 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking about what you have in common...or what you guys feel like doing...maybe memories...just think, and the first NICE thing you think of, say it..soon a convo will blossom.
~SugaSw33t
2006-07-08 19:31:11 · answer #5 · answered by SugarSw33t 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask a Q then shut up and listen.
Ask about their home life, what they like to eat, anything.
2006-07-08 19:31:24 · answer #6 · answered by whynotaskdon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A couple of beers and you'll be talking so much they'll be begging you shut up.
2006-07-08 19:35:06 · answer #7 · answered by Ryan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wish i knew,m i have the sameproblem, sometimes I think im just shallow... so hope u get better advice
2006-07-08 19:32:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
meditate before you leave the house it will clear your mind.
2006-07-08 19:31:55 · answer #9 · answered by Joe B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be u dont worry about what anybody thinks of u just be who u wanna be and stand PROUD!!!!!!!!
2006-07-08 19:31:38 · answer #10 · answered by ~Irishgirl~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋