I'M A STUDENT, FULL TIME WORKER, AND MOTHER OF A TWO YEAR OLD. I MIGHT BE PREGNANT AGAIN BY MY SON'S FATHER. HE DOESN'T DO ANYTHING FOR MY SON NOW, AND I'M PRETTY SURE HE WON'T FOR THE NEW BABY. HE ALSO HA S THREE OTHER KIDS ALL BY DIFFERENT WOMEN. IS IT WORTH RISKING MY CURRENT LIFE TO TAKE ON ANOTHER ONE?
2006-07-08 12:21:23 · 12 answers · asked by JUICY 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'm pregnant by my ex husband and he is the father of my sons, he's not around, but I look forward to my next son that will be born in october. I could of took the easy way out, but I knew I was careless in the first place. Look at it this way, the baby will be a new member of your little family. As far as the father, he's the one missing out, not you. Good luck, girl. Smile.
2006-07-08 12:54:16 · answer #1 · answered by rcp5276 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You might not like the answer but this is a bed that you have made so go ahead and sleep in it. This does not mean that you should stay with your current boyfriend but I feel it is wrong to end the childs life no matter what stage you are in. We have courts now that will help you get support from your present Boyfriend and you should pursue this at once. I am not saying it is going to be easy going while in fact it will be tough. If you feel you can not provide for the child you can always place it up for adoption wich will be hard on you in the long run but might be easier on the child when placed in a good home.
2006-07-08 12:30:24 · answer #2 · answered by justduh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
g/f seriously here are you STUCK ON STUPID???
You already have ONE child with this loser, you know he's a dog and has three other kids he does nothing for why the HELL did you crawl back into bed with the stupid jerk?
WHAT WERE YOU THINKING??
Didn't you learn anything after you had the FIRST kid???
What do you mean you are PRETTY SURE he won't do anything for the new baby umm DUH???
He ain't doing crap all for the other FOUR is he? GIVE YOUR HEAD A SHAKE!
You are worth more than this bullsh*t he's giving you, and you deserve better. Making a mistake and ending up with ONE child ...happens to a lot of people...but being dumb enough to have it happen TWICE with the same LOSER?
Gawd what are you in school for?? I'm afraid to ask.
2006-07-08 12:29:48 · answer #3 · answered by Jennifer B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can determine that. It's your life, your body. There are ways that you can have another baby and still maintain your current lifestyle. And please kick the deadbeat sperm donor to the curb. He's not worth your time. You have a little one who needs your time, concentrate on that as well as your schooling and job. It will be hard to do and manage, but if you are determined, it can be done. Many of us moms out there have single parented, went to school and worked full time. It really depends on what you want. Good luck.
2006-07-08 12:28:39 · answer #4 · answered by masmalan2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already have and this is the question you should have been asking yourself before you further involved yourself with this man. He is obviously irresponsible, immature and only interested in his best interests.
However, regarding the possibility of another child, it is your right to keep or not keep this child and only and your conscience can make that choice. Whatever decision you make though, hopefully you will learn from your past and add this relationship to your past as well.
2006-07-08 12:29:04 · answer #5 · answered by fun_guy_otown 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say not at this time in your life. Children can be a blessing but they are hard to raise all on your own. It sounds to me like you have more than enough going on in your life already without adding more to it. Hope this helps.
2006-07-08 12:27:38 · answer #6 · answered by family_gal2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to tell you this hun but you should have thought of this before you had unprotected sex with him especialy when you knew how he was with your other child. you have gotten yourself into one hell of a pickle. whatever you decide to do remember the child that you are carrying is innocent and never asked for this. remember to take procaution next time. Good luck girl
2006-07-08 12:32:11 · answer #7 · answered by btre22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's what you wont god wouldn't put no more than you can handle.i have 6 kids by three different men yep they have 2 a piece and they don't do nothing for thier kids but thanks to my new b/f he is all of thier father that who take care of me and the kids I didn't know what to do then god sent him to me and I have been happy every since.
2006-07-08 12:47:54 · answer #8 · answered by yoyoluv27910 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It Is Your Desion
2006-07-08 12:25:16 · answer #9 · answered by mks 7-15-02 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is totally your decision...but make it based on what is good and in the best interest for you!!
2006-07-08 12:38:13 · answer #10 · answered by moccia32 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋