is spanking ok??Have you been spanked before??And if so what was your worst spanking???

Answer 1

I won't discuss my childhood spankings but my worst spanking experience as a consenting adult was when I was at my boyfriends and his mom and sister walked in and saw us... she though he was really beating me.

It was super-humiliating to have to explain to her that 1) her son wasn't a violent psycho, that we were enjoying that and 2) that spanking is an entirely normal fetish. Listening to his mom was bad enough, but the sister was there too... not cool at all.

The worst part was that it was a really good spanking and fun roleplay... until the door opened.

Answer 2

i think spanking is wrong, because there are many other ways of punishing a child. An example of punishing a child is by prohibiting having the privilege of doing something such as watching television, playing computers games, etc. I have been spanked. All the spanking that I received were about the same.

Answer 3

Yes. Spanking is OK, and in fact necessary. Not beating, not slapping. But you can't 'reason' with a two year old who's throwing a fit, and a spank on the butt gets the message across.

Yes, I was spanked as a child. My worst (and last) one was at age 16 when I skipped school and lied about it to my Mom.

And it's my studied observation that the people who think spanking is 'criminal' are invariably the ones whose children are devious little psychopaths .

Answer 4

I was spanked as a child and I have to say there wasn't ever a good spanking for me so for me to tell you about my worst would be very hard. Not because my parents did it in the wrong way, but because I didn't want to be in trouble and it hurt. As to whether it's okay to spank, I believe you have to punish your children the way you feel most comfortable and most effective. If you aren't comfortable spanking your kids then, no amount of people telling you its okay is going to make you feel okay with it. It's all personal prefrence. And it also depends on the child.

Answer 5

i think that spanking a child is a very reasonable way to let the child know that it is being punished... when i have kids of my own spanking and time out are going to be my top 2 ways of discipline... and i think the worst part of spanking is how u feel afterwards some ppl feel like they should go and apologize to their kids right after they have spanked them but if u feel like that just try ur best to suck it up bcuz if u go back and apologize then ur kids will feel that they can take advantage of u by making u feel bad for punishing them...
God Bless

Answer 6

If you are talking about an activity between two consenting adults, then as long as neither party objects, no problem. For some it's a little weird.
If you are talking about disciplining children, as long as it is never done in anger, yes, it's ok. If you leave marks (other than a pinkish blush that fades within a few minutes) such as welts or bruising, you are abusing your child. With toddlers, a cupped hand making a popping sound on the diaper is all that is required.
If you feel you are not fully in control, don't spank your child until you have the control. Send them to their rooms instead.

Answer 7

i am a mother and yes i have been spanked as a child and it was horrible , i do not spank my boys and they are great children . my worst spanking was when my step-dad caught me with no shoes on outside , he really hurt me . and i never felt the same way about him ever since .

Answer 8

too many people don't realize there is a difference in spanking and beating, to spank a child is perfectly ok AND legal, to beat your child which is to cause bodily injury is wrong. I was spanked many times as a child, and I spank my child, i couldn't say what my worst spanking was, they were all the same to me.

Answer 9

Spanking is much too good to be wasted on kids.

Answer 10

I was cracked in the forehead with a golf club for interrupting my fathers "Perfect." golf swing (he absolutely sucked at golf and never would become any good at it.) by trying to be nice and bring him a glass of iced tea.

He had a fantastically erratic temper (He's insane) lead poisoning in his brain from welding flashes. and he was built like a brick **** house and when he hit you... you knew you were hit, usually for a few days afterward too.

He honestly tried ( I think) not to hit me quite as much being the youngest and the only girl but man oh man the boys got their asses handed to them on a daily basis. I do not remember a time in my home where there wasn't someone getting a beating or just screamed at and spoken to like they were garbage.

I asked a similar question recently. My parents always hit us out of anger and frustration and that is why I don't hit my kids past a paddle on the butt and yet they are somewhat spoiled and can be quite rude sometimes knowing they really don't have anything to fear from me...

But for all the beatings we got as kids it really instilled a sense of responsibility in us where we really all think twice about doing stupid things (even though we all did). having personally learned the lesson from a sociopath psycho father, everything eventually became wrong and stress full and I had to do my own soul- searching to rediscover who I am apart from such an influence.

I basically took all of his bad and made something good of it all on my own. Does it help...yes and no but mostly no.