Why havent I got any friends?

Question

o dear!

Answer 1

Could be that you're spending too much time on the computer? Try going out and doing something with someone. You're never gonna make friends just sittin' there.

Answer 2

I think the best person to answer this is you. You need to reflect back on yourself and see what about you makes you not have friends. Don't try to be too harsh on yourself since usually it is the small things and not really huge ones.

I have a friend that has little to no friends, but that's because he has a personality which makes him want to stay indoors and quiet most of the time.

I remember in college I didn't have many friends. One thing was that I hated the school I was in; I loved the city and mistakenly chose to go to a small town agricultural school. Another thing was that I decided against becoming an alcoholic, and that is pretty bad if you're part of the greek community like I was. And being part of the greek community made people stereotype me. Eventually I decided against staying over the weekend at school and came back home to hang out with my friends (I went to school one hour away).

Answer 3

My dear new friend Brendan,

How could I neglect your question and leave you in this state. Please let the world know that I am your new friend, so please, you have one!

As your friend, your best friend and only friend I can do what best friends do, and tell you, without offence, your problem. Despite belief to the contrary, asking questions on a Saturday Night alone at home is not going to help and we need to get you out and see some girls.

I know a couple of nice blonds who will help and also (for a small fee) be your friend. Isn't the world looking up now When shall we get started !!!!

Answer 4

To make friends you have to first like yourself. Then set out on a mission to make some new friends. Try joining a club or nightschool which is a good place to start. Join the Ramblers they have clubs in most areas and go walking at weekends Try doing some voluntary work another good place to make friends. Do you have colleagues at school or work try asking one or two if they wish to go to the cinema / meal / drink / football etc. The first time you ask it will be hard but dont be put off if someone says no just ask someone else. Before you know it you will have a wide circle of friends. If you don`t know what to talk about try asking questions about them like what are their hobbies etc Good Luck and Best Wishes

Answer 5

I can tell you why I don't have any. By choice. I decided a few years ago to keep my "circle" small. One or two friends, maybe a neighbor, and of course my immediate family.

Friends are overrated. Family (outside of spouse and children) is WAY overrated. When you decide that you can get along just fine without them, and lose the feeling sorry for yourself, you'll realize you are better off for it.

Do NOT turn to church groups to solve this problem. They prey on people like you and strike you when you are weak. Next thing you know, you're giving away 10% of your money every Sunday, drinking blood, and eating somebody's body.

Answer 6

It depends on what you are looking for. It's really hard to find true friends nowadays but if you are looking for someone to kick it with you can always find that. I used to have alot of "friends" but as I got older my eyes started to open to how unreal they were so I just started to drop them one by one. So now I am doing some self evaluation and hopefully the right people will come into my life when it's right.

Answer 7

Hi Brendan now you have 2 friends Tim T and me but we need one more as you two may leave me out of the fun.
See its easy when you know how

Answer 8

Because you have tried to reach out to them too much, you're too needy, or you scare them away. Not to be mean, but it's most likely your fault. If these people don't like you then find people where your feelings about each other are mutual, like you both like the same things and such.

Answer 9

Just remember the less friends one has the less chance of getting hurt, let down, dissapointed is.
With friends you may taste the highs but the lows are much worse.

Answer 10

Brendan,
You might well be an insufferable shithead who masterbates all day long and wipes his **** on the bedroom curtains, does'nt brush his teeth or change his skiddy underpants very much so his ball sack smells of king prawns.
Or your just dull.