ok, so my parents split up when i was 2 months old : ( and i have lived with my mom all of my life well up until i was 11 and i got caught skipping school and then my mom made me move to my dads, and i diddnt know him...................... and while i was down there my mom got into a fight and my little sister got put into foster care, and after my stepmom found out that they had temorary custady of me we started getting into alot of phisical fights and there was a point where i was acctually kicked out of the house when i was 11 years old, and noe im back with my mom thank god she graduated treatment classes and im stll having a problum talking to my dad cuz he was on her (my step mom) side the whole time
i need advice as to if i should hold a grudge or let it go and go stay w/ them for a while this summer like every body wants
2006-07-08 11:52:32 · 8 answers · asked by a7xkindagirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Don't go see them if it was just hell for you. Yes, tell them you're angry, but don't hold a grudge against them. It will only hurt you in the end.
2006-07-08 11:57:40 · answer #1 · answered by Jenn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should follow ur heart not what other people want trust me my parents split when i was 2 and i don't even know my dad just follow ur heart and it will lead u into the right place
2006-07-08 11:57:00 · answer #2 · answered by namegoeshere. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LET IT GO FORGIVE YOUR FATHER..... HE DOESN'T KNOW YOU AND YOU DO NOT KNOW HIM SO MAKE PEACE AND JUST TAKE TIME AND LOVE EACH OTHER... DOES HE HAVE OTHER CHILDREN IF NOT THEN MAYBE HE NEEDS TO LEARN HOW TO PARENT CHILDREN.... IF SO THAN MAYBE HE NEEDS TO LEARN WHO YOU ARE AND TRY TO BE ON YOUR BEST BEHAVIOR EVEN IF YOU DO NOT LIKE THE PERSON..... GOOD LUCK AND GOD BLESS..... IT WILL WORK ITSELF OUT BUT YOU BOTH HAVE TO PUT FORTH AN EFFORT... IF THAT DOESN;T WORK GO TO COUNSELING TOGETHER..... WORK OUT YOUR AGGRESSIONS THERE....
2006-07-08 13:02:36 · answer #3 · answered by rawdawgsgo_hard2005 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say forgive and move on. Every parent makes mistakes.
2006-07-08 11:56:55 · answer #4 · answered by brokeninthebox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Forgiveness does not change the past, but it does enlarge the future" - Paul Boese
try to foregive....things will go better
2006-07-08 12:15:06 · answer #5 · answered by rapstar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont have a gruge give her another chance it just might be fun
2006-07-08 12:09:53 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
remember this nobody is perfect!
2006-07-08 12:02:24 · answer #7 · answered by 11.21.08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for give him... we all make stupid mistakes... i bet he still loves you tho...
2006-07-08 12:05:38 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Devyn♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋