I need to be visually turned on by. Of course it is so much better when you have the emotions to go with it. But when ask simialar questions, people think that women are much better off if they have a guy that treats thme well and they are not sexually attracted to them. I find this disturbing, for one reason is because I think that people are ready to judge someone because they focus on their looks and assume that that is all there is to that person which I think is a shallow judgement. Second of all, how can you actually enjoy sex with someone who doesn't look good to you?
2006-07-08 11:43:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
women and sex go good together.
2006-07-08 11:48:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
On women and sex: I feel that too few of them are enocuraged in our culture to explore their sexuality and that is very sad and tragic indeed, if women where given the same encouragement as men, I firmly believe there would be less sexual violence and more empowered women and we would live in a far happier world. I personally think one cannot have truly satisfying sex without being physcially attracted to the person they are having it with, this generally applies to both women and men. Yes, it's nice to have the emotions but I always search for the entire package good looks and a someone who is kind and they definitely do exist!
2006-07-08 11:53:08 · answer #2 · answered by Rawboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good looking people who are found in a materialistic society are subject to an environmental pressure to trade on their looks to get quick gratification. Why? Because they can. To them alone falls the possibility of using their attractiveness as a way to hide unsavory intentions. Not all good-looking people yield to this temptation, but many of them do.
Good looks (in a society that puts a premium on them) is a form of power, and it can be abused just as political power can be. And though you will find heroes - really moral and noble people - who won't abuse that power, you can safely bet that most of those who have it will do so.
So beware of people who trade on their good looks, of people who seem to expect something from others just because they are better-looking than most folks. It's better to be unfair to a few good-looking people than it is to be stung repeatedly by the many.
You want, really, a partner who looks well enough not to offend your taste. When that condition is met, start sifting for character. As the years go by, sex will be something nice that you and your partner can do for each other. I'm assuming, of course, that YOU aren't the one who's planning to "love 'em and leave 'em."
2006-07-08 12:00:50 · answer #3 · answered by David S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that being visually turned on is but only a small part of sex, sex is not in your body, but in your mind. With out your mind there is no sex. Your emotions take time to build into love, respect, trust and a million other emotions, which with out there is nothing. If there is not a period of time to be with and build emotions, with out which sex is just a animal instinct... I be leave we are much more advanced than a non-emotional animal. We have respect for our selves and our Mothers, Fathers, Sisters, Brothers and our for Fathers, of which we are much more advanced than they were... We ought it to our selves to not lower our standards to a common animal...
2006-07-08 12:33:18 · answer #4 · answered by inkkadinkkado 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure I understand your question.
What view are you looking for.?
Are you talking about a view into some else's bedroom,
so you can be visually stimulated? Like a "Peeping Tom"?
That is interesting, but also illegal.
Sex with someone that does not look good you?
Ask a Rapist or a "John".
2006-07-08 11:55:18 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the Creator didn't put that fire into all those young women, where would all tomorrow's babies come from?
Where the attraction is such an important focus. There may be a certain baby that the world needs........
2006-07-08 13:48:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you can't. It's just plain stupid to say you enjoy sex with someone you don't fin attractive. Sex is all about love and having a connection at the moment and you can't love someone you are not attracted to, it's nonsense.
2006-07-08 11:48:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When are you turned on? When she is visually pleasant and also warm and comforatble with herself. What is your name honey? I met three girls who made passes at me in the park. One of them told me she loved my sexy belly. We both have beer bellies but we look good to each other!
2006-07-08 13:51:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
where on the same page honey! people wanna call me gay cause i dont wanna sleep with fat girls or ugly whatever. you get the point,i gota at least think their cute in their own way!
2006-07-08 11:50:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like the view from on top and yeah women sound good too.
2006-07-08 11:47:56 · answer #10 · answered by bkrboyz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋