then told you you guys could go out in a week cause of his crazy ex girlfriend and then all of a sudden tellyou its not going to work out cause he has issuses and has to go to therapy....all after he tells you he loves you???????
2006-07-08 11:41:12 · 10 answers · asked by nici smittenbaum 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Uh, honey, there is so much "wrong" in this that I don't know where to begin. But I know where it should end: it should end with you firmly telling him the relationship is off because it's already getting much too weird.
2006-07-08 11:44:35 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, it is wrong. He sounds quite young and so do you. There will be a million more fellows that you will like in your lifetime. Straighten out your feelings and when you are ready, find another boy. It is better if you don't 'major make-out' with them too soon, cause you just saw what can happen. Take it slow.
2006-07-08 18:45:57 · answer #2 · answered by gnateleeagain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it would be if he was sane! But you already said that he's unstable and has to go to therapy. Plus he has a crazy ex-gf. Do you really want a piece of that mess? You want to be crazy ex-gf #2? Run away!
2006-07-08 18:46:52 · answer #3 · answered by Josh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the moral of the story is that you should date and get to know someone before you make out with them. For guys, making out is not a sign that they're committed to the relationship.
2006-07-08 18:47:41 · answer #4 · answered by Dave S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is very very wrong.
Love is a very strong word and if someone uses it on you early on in the relationship it's definitely not love but lust, so beware of such creeps in future.
2006-07-08 22:24:51 · answer #5 · answered by Sentient 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I had a friend that would kiss you and then right after that he would break-up with u cuz he said it was the German way to say good buy.
2006-07-08 18:48:47 · answer #6 · answered by Henleypaw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a lesson to be learned here about the choices you are making both in your friends/dates and how far you go and how soon. Let's hope you learned something valuable here.
2006-07-08 18:44:57 · answer #7 · answered by J Somethingorother 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is trying to get your goodies, that's pretty obvious, you need to accept that guys don't always fall madly in love with you and they will say and do anything to get at your goodies. he may have gotten someone elses goodies and changed his mind about you later on. you don't have the power to make anyone fall in love with you, if you run your game on them and trick them , it's still not love , it's their ego controlling them. and he may truly need the therapy, so he isn't gaming you.
2006-07-08 18:47:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just wanted one thing. And trust me, it'll happen a ton of times more...becareful.
2006-07-08 18:45:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is inconsiderate, unkind and disrespectful. you deserve better.
2006-07-08 18:51:16 · answer #10 · answered by slim 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋