I am 13, a brunette with puffy medium wavy hair. I wear glasses, and can't get contacts.I am flat and wear clothes from Target in an expensive area. I can't shop anywhere else. I am nice but really quiet and shy. I am slim but I think I am biggish. I am smart and not popular. I also don't know what to say to guys. Would a guy like me or not? What should I do?
2006-07-08 11:37:43 · 15 answers · asked by angeltaylo 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
You look wonderful most guys at 13 don't even know what's going on with their own bodies to judge you. So just relax soon you'll look like a supermodel so just continue to study hard and stay in school you'll mature so enough and get tired of men trying to talk to you.
2006-07-21 15:40:58 · answer #1 · answered by wthmassage 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi,im ian im also 13 an d i just wanted to say that popularity isnt the problem but if have agood personality and r close to guys then ur gonna be fine in the future but for right now were make up and do stuff that u no that will make urself look hott,i cant tell u much with the dressin or looks cuz i dont exactly now u but if real touchy with guys and stay close to guys and like hug and arm lock or hold hands ,just keep close to them
2006-07-22 02:54:59 · answer #2 · answered by ian 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about looks. Maybe try to join different activities to be around more boys (and girls for that matter). Friends are just as fullfulling as boys (almost anyways). Join band or a sport, something to get you out your shell. Personality #1, looks #2. Trust me, I am a former awkward 13 year old, now a well-adjusted 28 year old. :-)
2006-07-20 13:51:58 · answer #3 · answered by curious_maya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea, ive had guy trouble too in the past. im 13. i just met a super hot guy at a dance and he likes me now. my guy friend says hes gonna ask me out soon!!! what i did was i wore a black tube top and jeans. i wore my hair down and i had no jewelry besides a blue beaded bangle. guys dont like a lot of jewelry. u dont need to dress slutty, but revealing a little skin isnt bad either. its flirty. i made eyecontact with him while we slow danced. that drew him in. he asked questions and i answered with some humor and joking. we laughed. its good to relax while ur talking to him.
good luck!<3
2006-07-08 18:59:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though I'm a girl, you sound like a wonderful person. It's ok to be shy, I am too :) Just be yourself and surely the right guy will come along and love you for who you are.
2006-07-09 16:46:08 · answer #5 · answered by meloncholy canteloupe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are alot and alot of jerks out there who will go for a girl for only the wrong things but there are also guys who will love you and adore you on the inside and outside just for who you are
dont ever change! i believe there's someone for everybody!
2006-07-22 17:16:34 · answer #6 · answered by easybreezy beautiful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm... all I have to say is be a little more out there. people say dont change a thing, well if something isnt working, then why NOT change it? just try to talk a litle more. I did that and it worked wonders...
2006-07-08 19:46:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a girl should look like a girl, not a guy.
nice hair, feminine clothes, feminine personality.
How to talk to guys:
say hi then ask them questions about them
whatca doing? then LISTEN, go from there
2006-07-08 18:43:28 · answer #8 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im 13 u seem cool but talk more to girl and dudes and someone will come along
2006-07-08 23:46:30 · answer #9 · answered by kingaberdeen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would like you. exept for the flat part. i dont like that part that much. acually i dont liek that part at all. at my school I have a gf kinda like you exept blonde hair and she really likes sports. if u try sports guys would prolly like you more.
2006-07-09 02:25:33 · answer #10 · answered by Jon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋