Today, he dropped by about 5 minutes before he had to leave and didn't say a word until about the time he left and said "you don't want to go do you?" If he wasn't going to give me time to spiffy up, I certainly wasn't going to go
He took off of work for this reunion which is something he never does. He worked even though the last 2 holidays even though he had the opportunity to get them off.
I feel like something is up. Am I just being paranoid?
The reunion is 65 miles away.
2006-07-08 11:20:34 · 9 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It is his 35th class reunion. He grew up in the area.
2006-07-08 11:30:55 · update #1
1. He didn't tell me the time of the reunion
2. I just spent 2 hours with him this afternoon and he didn't mention it
3. He didn't work the last 2 holidays to get today off. He just worked because he makes about 3 times what I do and is greedy.
4. Nice thought. Think I will go out tonite and enjoy myself. I don't play games very well.
2006-07-08 11:39:30 · update #2
no your not if he asked you to go then what happend he's just trying to be alone I think something is up also
2006-07-08 11:23:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is up is that you ...YOU young lady did not care enough to try to remember when it was, and or want to go. He did everything right.
1) He invited you and told you when it was
2) That it is a 65 mile drive
3) He worked extra hours so that he could go and you knew it, so YOU KNEW when the reunion was so you cannot say that you forgot or it slipped your mind to us.
4) He came by your place to pick you up 5 minutes prior to time to leave
5) He waited, noticed that you were not ready nor did you seem to give any inclination that you were going to get ready
6) Disappointed, he mentioned that 'you don't really want to go do you' and left
You are the one who is to blame here, not him so stop making out to people that you are the injured one and making up rubbish like there must be something up and should you be paranoid.
Well maybe you should start being paranoid come to think of it, if this is the way you treat him it probably is not the first time, and he will get the picture through his thick head one of these mornings and dump you.
2006-07-08 18:32:44 · answer #2 · answered by Pete 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He did tell you about the reunion a week ago. No need to get paranoid it does not seem like anything is going to happen.
65 miles is not far.
2006-07-08 18:25:49 · answer #3 · answered by OJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to be honest it seems to me that he didn't want you to go in the first place. He tried to ask you a week before to make you think that he wanted you to go. The fact of the matter that he didn't ask you again until it was time for him to leave. I hate say it but I think that hes ashame to show you off to his former classmates. I hope this was helpful maygod bless you.
2006-07-08 18:29:18 · answer #4 · answered by christina m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm not sure something is up but you certainly have reason to be suspicious, sounds like he didnt want you to go for some reason and when he gets back i certainly would want an explanation, a darn good one and if he can't come up with one i'd question whether or not this is the right guy to be with.
2006-07-08 18:24:44 · answer #5 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm the type of chick to not really worry about what my man is doing. However in this situation...I wouldn't let him touch me when he came back. Leave him alone...he obviously has other priorities on his list. This isn't your fault or his...he just wants to be single and so should you.
2006-07-08 18:27:39 · answer #6 · answered by noriahchapman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like it. Thats weird. Yuo should look so far into that until you see through it, in other words get nosey.
2006-07-08 18:24:38 · answer #7 · answered by gooodluckcharm01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can ask to for him to take the time off and talk with him.
2006-07-08 18:24:59 · answer #8 · answered by Leeroy Jenkins 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably thinks your a dog and did not want to embarrass himself in front of former classmates
2006-07-08 18:26:08 · answer #9 · answered by Joe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋