Can a guy not want to have sex with you if you are not able to have an orgasm?

Question

I want to know if a guy would not want to have sex anymore after 2 years if his girlfriend is not able to have an orgasm. Could there be other reasons for not wanting sex as often as before?

Answer 1

If he doesn't want sex as often, all things being the same, it is probably that he feels that he is the reason that you can't have an orgasm. Nothing makes it wilt faster than feeling incapable of satisfying. The more serious question is, have you talked to your doctor about why you can't reach an orgasm? I am sure there are women who simply can't have an orgasm, but there may be a reason why. Can you orgasm from masturbation? If so, there may be some trust issues between you and your boyfriend. You would need to tell him exactly what works and what doesn't.

Answer 2

Hello. Yes, there could be many reasons. Such as impotence, loss of desire for the partner and/or fatigue just to name 3. Has the lady tried to talk to her boyfriend about it ? In any case, whether or not the lady in question has an orgasm would be irrelevant. Speaking as a man who prefers his lady to be satisfied sexually, even so, when I get turned on, the only real factors are (1) Do I have a partner AND (2) Is she willing. If the answer to either is no then I still have a third option which is sarah palmer and her 5 sisters. Dont blame yourself for his problems. Just try to help him as best as you can. Unless he's cheating on you, then dump his butt.

Answer 3

After two years it would get frustrating. I want my lady to enjoy the experience as much as I do. Can you have an orgasm by yourself? If so, invite him to watch and learn. If you are young, sometimes it takes more time for your body and/or mind to release. Is he a bad lover, or are you just not into him? It sounds like you do love him if you have been together for two years and are worried about the situation. Sometimes, if the relationship is having problems in other areas, the man might not be turned on. Without nagging, talk to your partner about it. Search your feelings on why you can't. Hopefully, with patience and practice you two will overcome this. Good luck.

Answer 4

how often you want sex is for you to decide wether you get an orgasm or not doesn't mean squat. if you want to have sex go for it. if you don't want or like sex there are plenty of other things you can do to have a good time. as for guy's there all different some might some might not. sorry can't help you more there.

Answer 5

as long as he is having the orgasm - he is having all he wants - there is something else going on - if you want a real man - look up the professor

Answer 6

ammm well its not that he doesnt want you in that case... he probably just thinks hes not good enough to satisfy you... poor guy. im sure you can talk it out though, maybe seek some help. in worst case youll be where you started, in best youll be having sex... with orgasms!

Answer 7

I would be concerned....but only if you've had one with another guy before. A lot of girls can't finish during intercourse no matter who the guy is. They usually need to finish themselves off or they need some finger/tongue help.

Answer 8

Yes there are guys who are concerned that their partners are satisfied, and if a guy can't satisfy his partner he might feel:
a) What's the use in having sex
b) She must be getting it elsewhere
c) Maybe I just don't turn her on

Answer 9

That very well could be the reason. Men have fragile egos. He may figure if he can't make you c um that he is failing.

Answer 10

yes