i need advice plz?

Question

hi i need advice on that i figured out that i liked my friend as more than a friend and i'm afraid that it might reck our friendship if i tell him and i'm not sure what i should do. should i tell him? what if i do tell him? so plz..i need advice plz!?!?!?!

Answer 1

I wouldn't do anything if I were you. First of all, if he reacts badly to you telling him, then you've lost a friend. Secondly, if he does like, you'll still end up breaking up eventually, and you'll have lost a friend. Either way, you end up losing him. Remember, lovers come and go, but friends always stay. I know this probably isn't what you want to hear, but I've effectively destroyed two friendships this way.

Good luck!

Answer 2

Hey, before you do anything ask yourself this question " Do you really, REALLY like him?" That much, that you are prepared to lose a good friend?
If you are not sure, then wait for a while and you'll see whether your feelings are getting stronger or weaker.If they're weaker, they'll soon be non-existing, so you don't need to make a fuss...but If they're stronger then you should talk to your friend. If he's a real friend,he'll understand and answer sincerely.Of course, you must stress out that you don't want the conversation to spoil your friendship.
Good luck, and who knows,maybe he feels the same way :))

Answer 3

If you don't tell him, you may miss something like the two of you being together for a long time, and you will be hurt if you see your friend with someone else.
On the other hand someone has to take the first step and it is never easy, but only you can make the decision to tell or not to tell.
When one door closes another door may open..keep that in mind however things go with your friend.
good luck

Answer 4

First of all you should look for any sign that he may feel the same. Everyone knows somehow if someone is interested or not. If you don't pick up any signs keep it to yourself. Try to flirt, etc. and see how the other person responds. It will answer your question.

Answer 5

well if u tell him u do like him and u guys r going out and when u guys break up that could end ur
relationship with him u should wait a while then tell him hope it all works out fine!!

Answer 6

you should tell him & if he says No just say well I just thought that it would work between us... he says no I just want to be friends then he's not the one your lookin for...
I use to like my friend more then a friend then I asked him out & he said I guess I'll give you a chance & it worked...
besides he's your friend if he was a true friend then he would tell you the truth & you should tell him how he feels about you...
if it doesn't work then I gave you the wrong edvice...
but it will work trust me...
e-mail me k I want to know how it woks between you & him...
take my edvice k it works every time...

Answer 7

o.k., I'll put my Dr.Phil thinking cap on. You have to decide if it is worth Risking a friendship over. It is a risk, but I personally say go for it. Otherwise you will always wonder.

Answer 8

If you have feelings for him, then your will never be the same again. So you better tell him. If he feels the same then it will be great, or else, get over it.

Answer 9

give him a punch every time he says a joke
act a lil manly, not to destory ur femininness but just to approach him like onna his guy friends

Answer 10

i would tell him because if he was a true friend it wouldnt matter n theres a chance he may lk u