my bf left me sinse 2 months and gone to another country and i had bad time i ever got it in my life cuz i loves him so deep by the way he loves me too and last night he talked to me on instant msg he want me to get back to him plus he asked me to leave my country and live with him cuz he can't come to me have a good job now and he will leave to england and he wanna marry me i said okay but my family wouldnt let me go to him what do i do now im confused i don't know what to do what my family , and i scared he not gonna marry me..give me real answer plz.
2006-07-08 10:48:17 · 13 answers · asked by eve 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think that love is stronger than anything and if u are old enough u need to follow ur heart and remember u still have to put ur self first so u need to make sure ur never giving up ur dreams just so he can fulfill his u come first but if u love him and he loves u then i think u should be with him ur family cant stop u if u are old enough good luck
2006-07-08 10:52:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous16 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Here is the deal if you are from Iraq as you say then think. Who would want to enter a country where there is a war and he couldn't enter that country if he wanted to. I take it he was an English soldier that you met. I don't know how things work in Iraq but here you pretty much do what you want as long as you don't hurt anyone else. I don't have an answer. I was never in your situation. By the way is that picture really you ?? If so I will marry you for a week anyway.Honey moons are nice. You sound like you just want out of where live if so this is not the way.
2006-07-08 19:25:08 · answer #2 · answered by irishlad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's important matter to make choice between two things that you don't give each up . At first, You should know what you want. Married your BF,or leave your family. Try to tell your family your idea. Thinking about ,and make a decision ,don't hesitate and regret.
2006-07-08 18:00:20 · answer #3 · answered by Justin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How resourceful are you? If your marriage doesn't work out, do you think you can make it on your own in another country? If so, I'd say go for it. You need to be your own person and not what your family dictates.
If you're very dependent on your family. And you love your life in your own country, then maybe you and he should go separate ways.
2006-07-08 17:56:53 · answer #4 · answered by klunk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends. If you really love him and he really loves you, then I say go for it. Umm, why did he leave you anyway if now he wants to marry you and he can't get you off his mind. It shows any one that doesn't know him that he's not that serious. Well, that's my advice.
Hope it all works out for you.
2006-07-08 18:00:18 · answer #5 · answered by Camille 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you living for yourself or for your parents?? If you love him and he is the real deal go for it... your parents have to get over it. so if you are prepared (college) and can find work etc..Go for it.. you never know what can happen and isnt life about experiences..??
Good luck, follow your heart!
2006-07-08 17:52:43 · answer #6 · answered by beantowngirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to come to your country for only 5 days to marry you in
and after marriage he can take you with him to England
i am sure he will scarifies 5 days of his expensive time for you
and if he refused then i don't think he really love you
2006-07-08 17:56:35 · answer #7 · answered by Mena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your decision. Leave your family or don't marry him.
2006-07-08 17:52:13 · answer #8 · answered by ummestarz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm... why did he leave in the first place? and maybe it just wont work out.. wait until you are older and able to move... if not just.. keep in touch through IM and find someone else
2006-07-08 17:51:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your over 18, then go to him. your family cant legaly tell you what to do if your over 18.
2006-07-08 17:52:13 · answer #10 · answered by Angel E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋