okay im going away to camp for 2 weeks and i know its not long at all but i need some help. I get very nervous when im away from my house because my mom has cancer and i think she is gonna die while im gone. I know she wont but it scares me. anyway i get nervous and i stop eatiing and almost make myself sick. do you know any techniques that i can do to make myself better and more relaxed...not going to camp is not an option i love camp
2006-07-08 10:40:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Try taking deep breaths and not thinking about home. Also, I know it may be hard to do but try to remember that what is meant to happen will happen however it is meant to. My father has cancer and my brother is the same way. He will not go anywhere because he is afraid something will happen while he is gone. I try to explain that he has a life to live too. Your life can't just stop because of tragedy or illness. That may sound harsh but it is true. Go have fun and enjoy camp! If anything should happen to your mom while you are gone, she will be glad you are enjoying your own life. You can't carry the world on your own shoulders.
If nothing else helps, maybe talk to your doctor about antidepressants, it really helps with anxiety and you don't have to have mental issues to get nervous or anxious. What you are going through would be hard on anyone.
2006-07-08 10:48:05 · answer #1 · answered by sceptileptic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain to the counsellors at camp what is bothering you and ask permission to phone home every couple of days to check. Get you father to promise to call you if your mother gets worse. See if you can have somebody pop in and check on your mother if she is alone during the day. Go to camp and know that everything is going to be alright.
Don't forget the sunblock and bug spray and have a good time. You deserve it. Take care
2006-07-08 17:51:09 · answer #2 · answered by older woman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Brings memories of my dad when he was ill. I commend you for accepting that your mom is very sick. Why don't you go to camp. Phone her every day, no matter if it is just to say hi! E-mail her, I am sure the councillors will understand. Arrange it so that you will be notified if there is any change in her health. You only have one mom. Do what you feel in your heart, there is no right or wrong when it comes to your family, you will be left with their memory.
2006-07-08 17:48:41 · answer #3 · answered by peppermint_paddy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to one of the camp counselors, talking to someone always helps. Don't try to hide your fears about your mom, your feeling are normal and show how much you love and care about your mom. Maybe your parents could call the camp and talk to someone so they will be aware of the situation. Tell yourself if you don't eat you might get sick and you couldn't help your mom then. You need to stay healthy for your mom's sake. I hope she gets better.
2006-07-08 17:51:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-07-09 00:58:02 · answer #5 · answered by Help is on the way :) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay Niki here's what to do think of how much you love your mom, call her now and then for christ's sake its two weeks talk with your girlfriends am sure you can do fun things with them to take your mind off her for a while
2006-07-08 17:46:11 · answer #6 · answered by Pinada 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go just take a picture of you and her with you and every morning when you wake up and every night before you go to sleep look at it and think of your mom. or if they have a phone call her every day
2006-07-08 17:47:35 · answer #7 · answered by beautifulone10356 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go to camp, stay with your mother... just in case!
2006-07-08 17:43:48 · answer #8 · answered by Maria32183 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would see maybe if you can make arrangements to phone your mom due to the circumstances, or write her everyday. Good luck!!
2006-07-08 17:47:40 · answer #9 · answered by carebarri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO ON TO CAMP AND HAVE FUN ANDMAKE NEW FRIENDS,
THEN KEEP YOUR MOM IN YOUR HEART AND KNOW THAT GOD IS TAKEING GOOD CARE OF HER AT HOME.
AND DON'T FORGET TO HAVE FUN FUN FUN.
BE HAPPY
2006-07-08 17:51:08 · answer #10 · answered by DENISE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋