2006-07-08 10:21:57 · 35 answers · asked by DeepFault 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Basically...one is someone i've been with for 3 years, the other someone i've got close to over the last 6 months.
The one I have got to know, I enjoy her time so much more and miss her a geeat deal when I am not with her. But the one I have been with, I care about her so much I just don't want to see her hurt...
2006-07-08 10:30:08 · update #1
well who do u like more . in this case u got to choose . that is the only way to go
2006-07-08 10:25:20 · answer #1 · answered by mary c 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are not in love with two people. Your relationship is over and you are in love with someone else. You can't be with someone out of pity, no matter how much you care about them.
But please make sure what you really feel before you act on anything. Because what you are feeling for the new woman you've met could be just sexual attraction.
Whatever you do, don't get physical with someone new while you are still in your relationship. It won't help. And it will send out the message that you are not trust worthy to your new woman. Believe me, if she was me, I would never trust you if we got together.
Without trust, there is no love.
2006-07-22 03:32:24 · answer #2 · answered by Jenny C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in that situation i made the mistake of leaving my b/f of 13 months to see a lad i like. to cut a long storey short i ended up hurt and i now know i made the biggest mistake ever. dont make the same one. I found i loved i still left the guy i left for the new one once its ended. stay with your current girl as long as she make you happy but either way you need to be honest to her and tell her if you do plan to be with the other girl.
2006-07-08 10:42:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible to love more than one person...but for different reasons...so now it comes down to what is important to you over the long haul. Don't be in a hurry to settle down, one way or another. Your answers will come to you. Take into consideration their feelings for you. Trust in your inner feelings...what do your insides tell you? Be still long enough to figure it out. I think you already know, but don't like the answer. Is this possible?
2006-07-08 10:30:35 · answer #4 · answered by riverhawthorne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two Words: PUPPY LOVE
You can't be in love with either. Your lusting after one and only truly look at the other as a friend. Like the first guys said, "Screw Them!" What your looking for is someone who would love you and care for you like you want to for her. If you truly love either one, you'll know it and feel it when your with them. Be honest with yourself and go with the one you love and care for most...or just go find someone else who will love you just the same.
2006-07-22 05:02:27 · answer #5 · answered by missbehave252002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever heard the phrase grass is always greener....
U r gonna cause a lot of hurt and pain to somebody but hey surprise surprise not you who is lookin elsewhere when still attached. Sort ure head out and stop being selfish!!!!
2006-07-18 07:09:29 · answer #6 · answered by cas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does either one show an interest in you?
What is the attraction to each one?
Which one would be capable of a satisfying long term commitment?
So make a choice!
2006-07-08 10:31:02 · answer #7 · answered by Mitche11 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would back away from both of them for a while and let things cool off. That will also give you time to think about which, if any, you really want to be with.
2006-07-08 10:25:57 · answer #8 · answered by Nicole K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
waite soon u will fall 4 1 of them or u will llike 1 better then the other
2006-07-08 10:26:17 · answer #9 · answered by soccer_chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If anything follow your heart the one your with sound like you like her more as a friend then a lover. Follow your heart and make sure your decision leaves you with no regrets.
2006-07-08 10:40:02 · answer #10 · answered by Peache264 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pick one, if you have the option of choosing between them. I'm not saying that will be easy, but if you wait too long you might lose both of them. You surely can't have them both. BTW, you gave no details, so we can't help you choose.
2006-07-08 10:27:36 · answer #11 · answered by DJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋