My daughter and her friend are 7. The friends mother called me friday morning to see if my daughter could spend the night on saturday night. I said yes and was told to bring her around noon saturday. At 11:30 saturday morning the friends mother called me to see if we could put my daughter off a night because her daughters other friend was going to leave town soon so her daugher was just going to spend the night with the other girl. I informed her of how rude i thought it was and she replied by yelling and telling me it's not rude. I told her to ask people their opionions on this situation and if they believe that it was not rude then i will apologize to her. I don't think i will have to apologize but i need your opinion.
2006-07-08 10:12:16 · 9 answers · asked by notyours 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Wow! i can not beleive the odasity of some people. Yes, that mother was very rude and she failed to teach her daughter a very valuable lesson: about frienship, about obligations, about honor, and about kindness. A child is only as good as his or her parents and this mother certainly allowing the poor mental growth of her child. As for you, I feel I would handle the situation by not allowing your daughter to spend the night the next time she is invited. Take this oppertunity to also teach your child the meaning of trust and friendship and let her know that even though she may not spend the night with her friend, her friend should always be welcome to cover to see her. Teach your child to act as she would want to be treated, who knows--maybe the positive energy will some how flow to her friends family.
2006-07-08 10:23:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am to a mother and i thought that was rude. Because the other friend is leaveing town and no telling when she or he will be back .And as far as the other mother she was rude also by yelling. Why don't you go over there and make up .It is not a real big deal . It is just one night or maybe they can have a slumber party but that depends on the other mother to . But realy we are grown now why fight .
2006-07-08 17:20:59 · answer #2 · answered by purpal2002002 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since the mother had already made plans for the little girl to come over then at the last minute make other plans then Yes it's rude but the little girl should get the apology.
2006-07-08 17:20:53 · answer #3 · answered by K-Baby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very rude. And it seems as if the mother has no morals. Best bet is not to deal with this person at all. This will only bring u future problems. Your daughter can always find new friends, only one mother.
2006-07-08 17:51:09 · answer #4 · answered by monaboricua 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it was rude. She could have asked the other mother if the girl leaving town could come over then all three girls could have had a little sleep over.
2006-07-08 17:24:35 · answer #5 · answered by Marci S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I THINK YOU NEED TO APOLOGIZE.IF THE GIRLS FRIEND WAS LEAVING TOWN AND THEY WANTED TO SPEND A LITTLE TIME TOGETHER BEFORE SHE GOES IT WAS OK TO CALL YOU AND ASK IF IT WAS OK TO PUT YOUR GIRLS NIGHT OFF ONE NIGHT.WHAT COULD BE WRONG WITH THAT THINGS COME UP.BUT BY YOU CALLING IT RUDE AND THEN HER GETTING LOUD OR WHAT EVER NOW IT IS GOING TO BE HARD ON THE GIRLS TO SPEND THE NIGHT TOGETHER AT ALL NOW IT MIGHT EVEN MESS WITH THERE FRIENDSHIP.BE A BIG GIRL AND APOLOGIZE FIRST SO YOUR CHILDREN CAN STILL PLAY TOGETHER.
2006-07-08 17:24:13 · answer #6 · answered by susan w 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sorry. ur wrong.cuz the other girl was going to leave town her kid was right to have the over night visit.
your kid & hers could have a sleep over ANY time.
2006-07-08 17:26:01 · answer #7 · answered by harmony 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Changing plans that quickly! Maybe she has ADD. Cross her off your spend-the-night list.
2006-07-08 17:21:52 · answer #8 · answered by klunk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is rude.
2006-07-08 17:41:56 · answer #9 · answered by Deerrunner 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋