2006-07-08 10:07:37 · 37 answers · asked by Angel 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
i reached puberty @ age 12 and i do know what sex is. i have been really close to it but i had my period all those times.
2006-07-08 10:14:50 · update #1
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2006-07-08 10:12:32 · answer #1 · answered by kaity_bugg11 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes, it is ok and natural for a 14 year old to crave sex. but at 14, craving is as far as it should go. lots of teenagers will lose their head where sex is concerned, just getting caught up in the moment, and then they have a whole slew of problems to deal with that are just a pain in the neck and generally take away from the fun of being a teenager. nobody wants to have STDs or babies at that age, and there is no such thing as perfectly safe sex. some diseases can be transmitted through just skin-to-skin contact, such as HPV (which causes warts and cancer, but which most doctors don't talk much about because it's so common -- 80% of all sexually active people have, or will at some point, have HPV. and while most people get over the infection, it is a virus and some people will have it for their whole life) so even using condoms won't necessarily keep you safe. so the moral to this: craving sex is natural and ok, and taking care of your cravings for it ALONE is also natural and ok, but you should make a decision to stay away from sex until you are married, because that is the very best way to keep yourself safe.
2006-07-08 10:16:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course it is normal to crave sex. Almost all human beings crave sex at some point in their lives. The question you should ask yourself is " what does it mean"??
Should an overweight person eat fast-food every day? Should a 14 year old have sex? No way, you can crave all you want but do yourself and your parents a favor and wait until you actually understand what having sex really means for you.
2006-07-08 10:21:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all it's normal but you are only 14. Why do you want to have sex? Why not wait? If you start now people will start talking and you will be known as EASY. I don't think that you really want that do you? You might just be craving it because you want someone to love you because you don't seem to love yourself. I was in that situation once. I wanted someone to love me and I tried to find it many times but then I realized this is my body and my husbands when ever I do get married. I am married now I am and so glad that I waited. Good luck with things and I only hope that you make the right decision.
2006-07-08 10:21:12 · answer #4 · answered by mommyof2_2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it normal? Yes. Is it right to act upon it? No. Even if you crave sex, 14 is too young to have it. Yes, some 14 year olds are very mature but if something goes wrong, like STDS or pregnancy, it will stick with you for the rest of your life! Always make good desicions and try to find a hobby or two to keep your mind off it!
2006-07-08 10:13:33 · answer #5 · answered by miranda_faye07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's ok to crave it
not OK to have sex (unless you want to be pregnant w/o a baby's father at home).
You CAN wait until you are married. You CAN wait to give your future husband the ONE and ONLY thing you can give him that no one else can- - - your virginity.
You cannot afford a baby, the bad reputation, the lack of credibility, the chance of getting caught (and you will by your parents), nor do you have the maturity to have sex, the emotional stability to have sex, the financial resources if you become pregnant, or the psychological stamina to deal with the boy who will use you for sex and then take off because he got all he wanted without the responsibility that you would be left with.
Is is OK to crave sex, yes- - -just DON'T DO IT!!
2006-07-08 11:51:58 · answer #6 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's ok to have those desires...
but it isn't ok to satisfy those desires, because probably you don't know the implications of a sexual union, because it is so much more than having pleasure from your couple, or ginving it to him/ her, it also means that your both lifes are joined (or united) from now on, and you get to be only one person. Then, if ever want to have sex with some other, you'll be united two, then it will be the three of you in only one person(or the three of you).
there is also the risk of getting pregned, and you must consider if at your age, having kids and invlonving in the role of taking care of them 24/7, 365 days... it's an huge responsability....
think it twice before doing something nonsense....
dont let yourself to be pushed by the social pressions, or your partner, friends, it is always best to wait.
2006-07-08 10:25:38 · answer #7 · answered by anyulled 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess its kind of normal..Its the age where you start to discover yourself and others. But just because its on your mind, DOES NOT mean that you crave it and should do it. If your 14, or even just a virgin being horny does not serve as a good answer for having sex. Its about being ready.
2006-07-08 12:12:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u crave sex gurl im right here but yeah to answere ur question becuz sometimez people are born sexually active. i know a 9 year old that craves sex
2006-07-08 10:11:17 · answer #9 · answered by flaco505 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hormones are going ape wild about that age, unless puberty happened years ago.
2006-07-08 10:10:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone craves it when their hormones are changing but I would not act on it until I was older to understand what could happen with pregnancies and STD's.
2006-07-08 10:13:49 · answer #11 · answered by brown eyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋