I'm 21 and I recently just gave me virginity up to my boyfriend . We have been going out for about 8 months. It took him about 10 mins to get it in. He claimed I was too tight, but I just think that he couldnt get it in because he didnt know wat he was doing. If so, how could I get it too loosen up so it won't be so difficult the next time. Has this ever happened to you before??
2006-07-08 09:53:25 · 7 answers · asked by lady 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He doesnt know what he's doing. It will get better the more you do it. Just keep trying...or try someone else:)
2006-07-08 09:56:54 · answer #1 · answered by skigod377 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Apple B., You are a very sweet accommodating young girl. I have to admit myself that many childish men said the same thing. I finally at age nineteen discovered my own body, learning that I needed more than an egotistical jerk ramming himself inside me. I hope you don't continue to see him or be humiliated. Passionate love is about giving and taking,your lover holding you and telling there is nothing wrong if you are nervous. A real man can make love to you; with his desire and willingness to love you!
I for many years did not know what making love was, I did have alot of sex , which I am not proud of. I finally fell in love, he made it so fun and there was no pressure, I couldn't believe that I actually wanted to do it again. He made it so different, I felt like a women. I had the ugly reputation of being "tight". That word to me means being with the wrong person, who hasn't thought about your feelings or needs as a women. This was written by Matt's Girl
2006-07-08 10:10:13 · answer #2 · answered by Matt M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have to finger and get more fingers in and that makes it loser.and i heard that guys like it better when ur tight?weird.but um he should not say that cause if ur a virgin then u should be tight so.....and first time is always like that and the more u do it the eailyer it gets
2006-07-08 09:58:27 · answer #3 · answered by soccer_chick4333 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is normal for the very first time, u will get use to it in time so dont worry about it - im sure ur bf will understand
2006-07-08 09:57:30 · answer #4 · answered by ~ Helin ~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No such thing as to tight. Bring it over here!
2006-07-08 10:07:50 · answer #5 · answered by sammyk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep doing it... sounds like neither of you know what to do... but have at it...have fun...but the more you do... the better and easier it will be
2006-07-08 09:58:07 · answer #6 · answered by pencilnbrush 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PLEASE CALL ME!
2006-07-08 11:20:27 · answer #7 · answered by resortlawns 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋