I could've sworn that i used to have best friendsbut then when i found out who they really were and what they were all about i was upset and felt that i can not trust anyone. Why are people so 2-faced? Especially females?
2006-07-08 09:51:03 · 5 answers · asked by Keila C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Only people who have no self-respect do that. Have no honor and egoistic, dont care to others as long as could reached the goal, will do anything even sacrificing own friends.
But I assure you that not all of people playing that game. So after all these times you find a kind of that...should be greatfull to God, finally you`ve known the truth and have a chance to staying away at once. Just be patient My friend, you`ll find the true friend...the times will come for you
2006-07-08 10:03:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Insecurity. It takes awhile to find a true friend, someone who you can tell anything to, and someone that you can trust. These are hard to find, so when you do find one, be glad!
It took me a long time to have good girl friends because of the gossip and hurt, I trusted the guys more, because they didn't act the same way, but this has it's own problems too, so it's best to have girl friends in the long run. Just be picky with who you confide in until you know they can be trusted.
Remember if they talk to you about other girls, they'll talk about you to other girls.
2006-07-08 17:05:40 · answer #2 · answered by trainer53 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same thing happen to me at work. she was a new girl and we became friends, then within a months time we became friends. then she becomes friends with someone else and ignores me, except for when we have to work together. now shes buddy- buddy with our boss and she gets away with everything and talks about me and others behind our backs.she comes in late and leaves early and its ok with the boss but then gives me dirty looks and wants to take over my work area. i had the same question come to my mind to. and the only thing i could think of was to get ahead in the work place, and they dont care who they hurt just as long as they get there way!
2006-07-08 17:33:35 · answer #3 · answered by pkuchick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When their lives get too boring they feel the need to stir up some drama so there will be something interesting going on. Sorry about your friends; I hope you either work things out or dump them and choose your friends wisely.
2006-07-08 16:55:15 · answer #4 · answered by LuLuBelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are not many decent people around these days and an old saying go's keep your friends close and your enemies closer, try working with 90% men its really bitchy most of the time, i dread to think what they say about me when i leave the room.
2006-07-08 16:57:50 · answer #5 · answered by kevin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋