how much sex is to much sex? i want it at least three times a day but my wife does not am i asking to much?

Question

please tell me am i wrong for asking for this?

Answer 1

You are definitely wrong in asking for it that much! Are you a se addict or what? If my fiance ever asked for it that much, I would probably deck him (joking). Actually, I would tell him flat out no. He is an awesome lover and when we do make love (more frequently in the winter than the summer since he works much longer hours in the summer), he totally rocks me and my world. Making yourself an awesome lover and asking for it once a day or better yet every other night would be better. If you want it all the time, your wife is going to get sooooooooooo bored. Plus, we are much more sensitive in our private area than men are. Too much stimulation can hurt and make us not want sex/to make love again.

Learn how to tone it down, deal with it. Get a hobby or two that can take your mind off of sex/making love. Then your wife will want you more and won't mind having sex.

My ex husband was a sex addict (I truly think that's why he had so many affairs in the 20 years we were together). I got sick and tired of him wanting it all the time, so I kept telling him no and we didn't have it more than once or twice a month. It could get like this with your wife if you don't learn to tone it down and get some hobby to keep you busy.

Answer 2

yes you are wrong for asking this, 3 times a day is a little extreme for a long term relationship. you have a high sex drive, your wife does not thats just the way it is. my bf is like you, all sex all the time and let me tell you from a womans point of view nothing makes me less interested in sex than being chased around 24/7. he ends up getting less sex than he would if he'd just back off a little bit, it honestly gets disgusting sometimes and i feel like he should just get himself a blow up doll.

Answer 3

Yes, expecting your wife to give it up 3 times a day is expecting too much. It gets too routine and how is that fun? Maybe for you, but not for her. Why not tone your own skills as a fine a*s lover and then if you can totally rock her world each and every time you do do it, you will get it more..not saying 3 times a day..but probably close to every night...IF she is walking away after coming so many times her legs quivver....then she'll want it more...

Answer 4

I think you and your wife should come to an agreement. Only she will be able to tell you how much is ''too much'' to ask for. Maybe also ask why she prefers not to have sex sometimes. There might be an underlying reason.

Answer 5

no you are not wrong to want to have sex three times a day! a lot of women would be like 'honored' to have a guy who needed it that much!
so if she can't provide what you need she should be prepared to accept the fact that you might have to get it some place else!

Answer 6

Naturally a male is horny, but u gotta control the urge!! u shouldnt have to ask that, u should know, and girls are more delicate down there, they get sore after awhile trust me, and it can get old if u do it too much!

Answer 7

Its fairly normal for a guy to want it that much but you shouldn't expect to get it that often. If you get it once a day you're luckier than most men. Women get sore easier "down there" also so you want to be sure you're not wearing her out.

Answer 8

Depends on the age of the partner and also if you can inject some element of competition.Monopolies are universally less efficient.

Answer 9

yep, you are asking too much. women and men just have different sex drives and when there are kids involved it is even more of a difference.

Answer 10

Give the poor woman a break. Sheesh.