2006-07-08 08:40:52 · 42 answers · asked by mary 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Nothing would change for me, I would continue to be friends and accept and respect him or her just like I did before I knew about it. Friendship is something precious and being gay is no reason at all to throw a good and warm friendship away. Real friends respect and accept each other for the way they are and help each other out whenever needed.
2006-07-08 08:51:41 · answer #1 · answered by aysha 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
QUESTION for you MICHELLE, DID YOU SAY FRIEND???If there your friend then treat them as so..Thats there way of life , if thats what they want then you should respect there rights..I have some gay friends both sexs and we get along just fine..I dont understand why there like that but thats OK there my friends and very good friends theyrespect the fact that I'm not gay and treat me so..MICHELLE A FRIEND IS A FRIEND LOVE THEM FOR THEM NOT FOR WHAT THE BELEIVE... LOL ROB
2006-07-08 08:52:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a gay friend and love her because she real and she got my back. Just because your friend is gay that does not take anything away from her personality.
2006-07-08 08:44:09 · answer #3 · answered by Disha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When it comes to your sexuality.. it should be nobodys business, your sexual preference should be kept to yourself and whoever else you wish to share it with.. what I don't get is ... if you are gay why do you think anyone else should have to hear about it... this issue is booooorrring .. if you share your sexuality with insensitive bigoted people ..what do you think will happen duh . and if you spend some time discerning who is of a like mind then your sharing can be whatever you make it.... flaunting your sexuality publicaly is inviting grief into your life wether your gay or just being slutty... about your gay friend ..... nobody can tell by looking ... a lisp or a limp wrist doesn't make you gay..... so if I had a friend who was discussing their gayness with me I would ask ... why are you discussing your sexxual preferences with me... be flattered perhaps and then change the subject...
2006-07-08 08:55:42 · answer #4 · answered by RenoDeano 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ihave a few friends that are gay and me being a female can count on one of my special male friend when ever I need someone to talk to or anything he can help me with.
my boyfriend know this and we just treat him as you would want to be treated yourself. do not let people tell you just make the most of you new found friendship. good luck
2006-07-08 08:48:50 · answer #5 · answered by Pat S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sexual preference does not matter in friendship. What if your friend said he/she didn't want to be your friend anymore because you weren't gay? Treat that person like you always did before you found out he/she was gay.
2006-07-08 08:48:04 · answer #6 · answered by LadyD1019 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure if we'd be close friends seeing that we live in 2 different world's. But I would be there like any other friend if that person needs me for anything they could depend on me everyone needs friends like that. Everyone's comfort level is different be true to yourself if that person's lifestyle doesn't make you comfortable they have to be prepared for that. You have to be friends with someone who will better you and share the same values as you its okay.. you aren't being mean or disrespectful and you don't have to explain it to anyone that's your choice.
2006-07-08 08:49:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of my best friends is gay and it has no negative impact on our friendship whatsoever...
If you are just finding out about it and you are shocked, chances are he/she is also having a hard time dealing with letting you know. Be supportive and remind him/her/yourself why you are friends in the first place. Chances are it has nothing to do with their preference of partners.
Good luck.
2006-07-08 08:48:07 · answer #8 · answered by Couple of Cents 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
treat him as u would treat all ur other friends, just because his gay u shouldn't treat him differently, plus gay people r funny u should be proud u have a gay friend!!
2006-07-08 08:46:45 · answer #9 · answered by *islandchick* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
had? i have one, he is cool, wait i have 2. ones 40 and ones 15 they r male n im female. so whats the problem? dont mean i am gay bc i aint. just bc someone is gay dont mean nothing. why do ppl care so much about who someone else likes these days. and if ppl around u dont like it then why are u friends with them
2006-07-08 08:44:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋