I seem to like people who aren't very nice on the whole, they usually end up being really nice people, but I like them more when they aren't nice. I seem to like people that hurt me.
I asked my friend to make me bleed yesterday for no reason, and now hes worried about me, and I'm wondering if its that odd.
He said that it's like I wasnt to be abused, and that if I go into a relationship, it's most probably going to be an abusive one.
But it's like I want it to happen and I'm not sure why. Is that weird?
He also said this is probably why I cut.
2006-07-08
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uhh, yea thats kinda wierd. And cutting is retarded IMO but to each their own
2006-07-08 08:31:05
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answered by Anonymous
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I mean this in the nicest possible way, but I think you have some personal issues that you really need to resolve immediately before it has an adverse affect on your whole life.
If there is someone who you know and can trust you can talk to and they're prepared to help you through your troubles then speak to them. Otherwise counselling or, in extreme cases, a psychiatrist may be of use.
I too used to self harm. It wasn't until I realised how much I was hurting the people who really care about me that I stopped it. I didn't have a bad childhood or anything, but I did face issues that I tried to tackle myself when I really wasn't ready to take on such issues. That as well as exams pushed me over the edge.
It's not the best way to go through life, and you can never have too many good friends, so wanting people to hate you is really quite sad and in the long term will make you feel lonely and worthless. Believe me, it's a horrible feeling and I wouldn't wish it on anyone!
I'm sure you're not going to take much notice of this, as usually it's a sharp shock that make people think twice about what they're doing, but I do hope you find a solution to this problem soon and go on to live a happy and fulfilled life.
;-)
2006-07-08 16:30:24
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answered by Anonymous
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Because you ask the question it is clear you know it is not normal.
Have you any recollection of your childhood? Were you abused? If not physically emotionally. WE tend to be the way we were brought up. And this does not just come out of thin air.
The way you describe it you are a danger to yourself and you like it.
You must have the feeling you should be punished. You are somehow bad and how can you ever be with someone who likes you.
You need help in a big way. This is not a minor thing. If you do nothing you could die young either on purpose or by accident.
Makes no difference your are still dead.
Please seek help now!
2006-07-08 15:37:34
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answered by John B 5
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What you are talking about is far from normal. It sounds like you have some deep rooted issues that make you feel good when you are getting negative attention, all the way up to the dangerous abuse type.
Life doesn't have to be like that. You need to talk to someone professionally and get the help you need.
Good luck.
2006-07-08 15:36:58
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answered by Couple of Cents 5
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I've encountered a few women like that. But they must realize that they are playing with fire. Literally. That type of behavior could lead to a tragic outcome. I know what you are saying. You are addicted to pain. You want to have some hard form of proof that you really do exist. And pain is that hard proof for you. But I would say that it is better to be lonely than to play with fire. Don't hang around bad folks. I think you know they will lead you down the wrong path.
2006-07-08 15:32:19
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answered by cannonball 1
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No its not weird but very commen but if you really want to start respecting yourself, you should learn to love yourself more and feel you do deserve a right to have a good life otherwise you'll end up becoming a white trash slapper
2006-07-08 15:33:14
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answered by Gar 7
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You need help. This way of thinking is far from normal. Go talk to someone that can give you the right answers. We can't. Get help. It will make your life,a happy life. GO
2006-07-08 15:31:11
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answered by Wishee 4
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I think it is normal but I don't like people that aren't nice.
2006-07-08 15:32:38
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answered by Mix 1
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no it's not if u grow up in the way that u like people to hate u it's normal it jus mean u are not a people person
2006-07-08 15:29:56
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answered by Thuganomics 1
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whats normal????yesterday i asked my mate to kick me in the nuts, cuz i felt like it! listen, do whatever floats your boat, whatever makes you smile and makes you feel good, as long as you don't take it to far, make sure you not what your doing...all those 'normal' people out there scare me to death!just have fun whatever you do, im sure your an intelligent kid :)
2006-07-08 15:39:58
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answered by Stanley Dru 2
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